I don't think being honest with the dad about the boy's level is hating on the kid. The dad talks with brutal frankness and always has. The fact is that every top current 100 pro was a prodigy, trashing even talented older boys, winning top ITFs, futures, challengers, Orange Bowls, etc. Tomic, Monfils, Nadal, Djorkovic and every example the dad makes comparison too, all were blowing top 18s off the court by age 14-15.
So I will not play PC and spout this "nobody knows" nonsense. We know, we see the slow feet, we see the results. It is what it is. Not buying into the dad's delusion is not hating on the kid.
I would not ask IMG or anyone else to spend a dime on him because I think he could be a money making pro.
BUT, I would vigorously recommend him to ANY college program in the land. I see his hard work, heard he plays smart tennis, decent forehand....I would write a personal letter or call any of the college coaches I know. Some of the better programs he would not play 1-2 position, but I would gladly recommend that they offer him a scholarship based on strong character, hard work, etc.
If thats hate to go out on a limb to try and get the kid a full ride to college, then my definition of hate is different than others.