Is an 18 yr old guy dating a 13 yr old girl a complete loser?
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GeorgeLucas
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Of the two issues, one being legality and the other morality, the former has been addressed properly. Age of consent and the like settles it for us. But per morality issues, I have to ask: Howcome we concern ourselves with the bedrooms of teenagers? Let nature be what it is.
You know, in certain circles of ape species, the young female has a tendency to procreate with the alpha male for status and protection. And we all know that what apes do is fair game.
You know, in certain circles of ape species, the young female has a tendency to procreate with the alpha male for status and protection. And we all know that what apes do is fair game.
Somehow I find that difficult to believe, but that could just be me...
He lived in the slums...
I highly doubt the validity of the fact that there are "slums" in a city like Chi-town. Come down to Mexico sometime, I'll take you to South East DF and show you what slums actually are.
Tennisguy777
Professional
In my STATE This is some serious Jail time here!
Kobble
Hall of Fame
Oh, man, after the Serena thread, the least I could do is give some people fodder to throw back. Here we go. What do you say about a 29 year old having relation with someone who could be as young as 19 years old? A girl who works at a local store has been showed interest in me, and normally, I shrug this stuff off (because I'm with someone, or I just don't like them). However, she is real nice, and attractive. Normally, I don't date under 24, but I wonder if I shouldn't make an exception once. I also wonder if she knows how old I am, because I look younger. We might both be mislead. Anyway, blast away.
Frank Silbermann
Professional
Ivan Lendl was in his 20s, I think, when he started dating a 14 year old. If I recall correctly, he eventually married her.
Tennisguy777
Professional
She's of age, GO FOR IT, How do you know she's 19, what makes you think she doesn't know your age? Also some chicks, actually a lot of chicks in the 18 - 30 range are attracted to older men to begin with. So go for it let her know you are 29.
Kobble
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Most people can't tell my age. Nobody has said over 25, yet. I laugh to myself, like, yeah, I can still date college girls. A lot of my male friends give me the look like, damn, bro, if I were you. I never really took advantage of it, though. Grad students, yes, but never undergraduates. Why I think she is 19? Because she looks young, but she has a hint of greater maturity than a High school girl, and her job doesn't suggest more than a 2nd year college student. Most high school girls seem stressed, and a little nervous, like their daily life is a pain in the ass. College age, not so much, because they have freedom. Now, that I think about it, I say 22 maximum. I could clearly see her being 20 thinking that I am like 23.
Deuce
Banned
^ Uhh... how exactly should she have known what she was getting into?
Kids who fall into these traps do so because their parents have parenting deficiencies. To lay the blame on a 13 year old kid, and expect her to know the dangers of life when she was likely never taught about the dangers, (nor, quite obviously, was her self-esteem ever nurtured by her parents), is downright ignorant and cruel of you.
The real losers in this are the parents of the two kids - the boy's parents obviously failed in a large way... but so did the girl's parents by not arming her with the emotional/psychological tools to defend against the traps that guys like that set.
^ No - they don't 'go well' for the most part.
Just because no-one ends up dead certainly does not mean that they 'go well'.
In the majority of such circumstances, there are huge elements of all kinds of exploitation.
^ I like the stuff that you've written in this thread...
... but if you have a daughter, it would be a very good idea for you to stop using the term 'pimp' so loosely, as if it is a harmless word.
Pimps are among the most vile, disgusting creatures on the planet - and it is tragic that the mainstream media is usung the term as if it means something that is fun and harmless.
Please teach your daughter by example.
^ Wrong again, Rickson. The legal age of consent in Canada was recently raised to 16 - which, for myself and a number of people, is still too young, because a 25 year old can very, very easily manipulate and exploit most 16 year olds.
^ Because, as naive teens with low self-esteem, they possess an unrealistic view of others, and of life - which renders them prime targets for those older persons who will harm them - of which there are many.
It's called caring - or having compassion.
You might want to look up the terms.
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PimpMyGame
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If my TTW name offends anyone, I apologise. It's just a play on "Pimp My Ride", as I was mainly looking for tennis instruction and racket help when I started posting on the forum. I'll ask admin staff to change the name to PMG if they feel it's offensive.
BTW not exactly sure if you're putting 2 and 2 together and coming to the conclusion that I use these words "loosely" around my children - but it's not the right conclusion.
Deuce
Banned
I simply don't think that any 'fun' use of the word 'pimp' is appropriate anywhere, as it tends to glorify pimps and what they do.
It reduces the word 'pimp' to harmless entertainment, or 'fun'.
I have seen first hand what pimps do, and it is in no way fun at all.
The word should be used only to describe the vile things that they do.
If you have a young daughter, I would think you'd understand and agree.
It reduces the word 'pimp' to harmless entertainment, or 'fun'.
I have seen first hand what pimps do, and it is in no way fun at all.
The word should be used only to describe the vile things that they do.
If you have a young daughter, I would think you'd understand and agree.
BreakPoint
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Was she his 7th grade teacher? :shock:
GeorgeLucas
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Tennisguy777
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Yep and the girl form OP, she's 13! I had a friend who ran into a situation like this, of course he was 20 and she was 16, eventually she was pregnant and they are now married with a baby.
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SystemicAnomaly
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This is allowed in many countries in the world. Some countries allow child marriages as long as the union is not consummated until the girl turns 15.
Anyway, your 18 year-old is now 34 and the girl is 29. That doesn’t really sound so bad at all.
Big_Dangerous
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SystemicAnomaly
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How’s the weather up there on your exceedingly high horse? No need to be so friggin sanctimonious / deprecating. I didn’t go looking for this thread — I just happened to stumble across it while looking for something else.You seriously went back into the archives to up a 16 year old thread???
Go cast yer stones elsewhere, Karen.
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Big_Dangerous
Talk Tennis Guru
I mean dude, you've been a real piece of **** lately. Think I'm adding you to my iggy list, which is sad because you've been a poster in the past I enjoyed from time to time, but no mas. You need some serious professional help. And not that once a week for 80 bucks **** either. You need to get involved at the University level, and have a team of people checking in on you, because that's the only way you'll get better.
Thread was 16 years old!
SystemicAnomaly
Bionic Poster
Wow!
Who needs professional help? Your post here is rather ironic. My post was retaliatory, perhaps a bit harsh, but it was pretty tame compared to the venom / hostility seen in this follow up post from you.
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