Ok in the past I would be so mad or gutted but right now I am actually taking so many positives! There this guy super fit div 1 player in our league we used to be even hes 4 years younger than me! Have not played him in a year or so but he was starting to get my number when we last played although I still had my moments against him. So he challenged me to a best of 5 set match today. It lasted 4 hours, I won 1st set 6-4 he won next 2 sets 6-4 6-2 I then came back from 4-2 down in 4th and saved match points to win it 7-6 but lost 5th 6-2. I felt totally flat in the 5th not physically but emotionally as coming back in that 4th took it all out of me. Despite a little dissapointment in losing the match having invested 4 hours into it! I am actually really pleased at how I fought and managed to take that match into 5 sets! Is this too negative or bad an attitude? normally I would be a lot more down about a loss than I am right now!