The argument is nonsense. Extreme risk taking is sometimes rewarded.
It seems Fed is just annoyed for losing against a person that he does not like.
This is simply incorrect. In fact, amongst the multiple grand slam champions, I'd say losing with class has been the modus operandi of the majority. Sampras, Laver....if anything they tended to go unrealistically far in praising people who beat them in big matches.....heck even Mcenroe was usually very complimentary of the opponent after big losses.
I should certainly hope not. I've demanded of every junior I work with that they handle themselves with dignity and class win or lose. I think you will find in life, you will be challenged to meet situations with far far more serious repercussions than the loss of a tennis match. For example, millions of people face life threatening illness everyday, including unreal physical pain, mental trauma, complete and total loss of all dignity and autonomy...yet many, many of them find a way to do it with class. I certainly do not feel much sympathy for a grown man with millions of dollars, in excellent health, young, and having won many, many titles, if he feels the need to takes snipes at an opponent who beat him.
Quite right. And if you, as a public figure, and as a hero to many many kids, cannot even pretend to be gracious for 30 minutes of interviews, then you have failed at a part of your profession, and as a human being.
That's absurd of course. I doubt very much you are close enough to any of the top 4 guys to be sure. Think critically about your heroes.
Stop sugar coating it, the answer is right there. Fed cannot understand how someone could play this shot as he always believed in the work hard kinda thing come on mandy01. He is always bitter afterwards plus notice how when djoker won he didn't scream at Feds face like fed did at the French open he showed class.
No **** he was bitter you think? Are you for real people?!?
This is a carbon copy of the loss he took 1 year ago, dropping 2 match points... you should cut the guy some slack.
I bet 75% of the wise guys who blubber on this forum look like clowns trying to hit a serve or a forehand.
It is not our fault that he keeps choking away matches. I thought this was the player that has all this class, ya he really shows his class when he loses.
He is always this way after he loses a match, nasty sore loser. The same guy that so many here claims to have so much class.
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Look I perfectly understand what you mean, but I'm sorry, one of the hardest things in life is to be able to maintain perspective at all times. By this way of thinking, one should never get frustrated at all in life since there are most likely people always in a much worse off position than we are. That is ideal but hardly realistic. I just I mean if you can do it, fantastic, but I'm telling you most people cannot do that at all times. .
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If today I was to get a bad mark for a test I work really really hard for, and that was because I made a few silly mistakes (misread the question), I can tell you right now I would be mighty pissed off. All that work would have gone down the drain for nothing, all that effort wasted. I would be frustrated and sad. OFCOURSE I would get over it when given time I can reflect upon the fact that it was only a test. That indeed there are billions of starving people in this world and I am lucky to even be in a position that I am getting to sit a test. Only then will I think rationally.
To be human is to be irrational. To be human is to feel emotion at the smallest most insignificant thing. Ofcourse, a day or two later Federer will gain that perspective and think rationally..
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I am not telling anyone to feel sympathy for Federer, infact I'm not telling anyone to do anything, it's not like it matters to me! I just wish people would be more understanding and try not to judge someone's character over a few words in a press conference. All the judgement that gets thrown around here (towards all the players) is just sickening. When people do such things, for me, that is when they have failed at being a human being. Humans have an unfortunate habit of judging by face value (even I am guilty of it). .
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Failed as a human being? That's overly melodramatic. Firstly I myself disagree with the notion of sport stars being role models, but that's another issue. .
And let's not kid ourselves, it's nowhere near 30 minutes for Federer, it's more like 3 hours..
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Federer exposes himself to much more press since he does it in so many languages. You say people handle much worse things with more class and so did the past champions. Well do these people have a microphone shoved in their faces at their lowest moments for the whole world to hear? Again and again and again? .
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Federer has been doing this for almost a decade now, so let's not compare apples and oranges. Also Laver and Sampras had nowhere near the amount of press Federer and Nadal and co have to deal with now. .
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With more exposure, ofcourse you will pick up on more things. Furthermore did you see the questions that were asked of Federer? Brutal and cringeworthy. At one point Fed even said "I mean what, What do you want me to say?" or something like that. .
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What I'm trying to get across is, Federer IS gracious about 90% of the time even when he loses, it's just that other 10% which seems to get blown out of proportion especially due to the greater amount of press today. Does that 10% mean he has failed as a human being? Well I dare say that everybody fails at being this definition of "human" then (which sounds more like a robot to me)..
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Federer is all class on court, Rafa/Djokovic are questionable and the opposite is true off court. It balances out IMO. Do Djoker/Rafa fail a part of their profession and as a human being with their ball bouncing/extended break between points/pelvic thrusts? I certainly don't think so. .
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No I am not close to any of them, but I have not heard of either being a straight up a**hole which is good enough for me. .
To me, it seemed like an angry shot (as opposed to a confident shot) by Djokovic. He seemed to be angry with the crowd at that point (and probably with the way he was playing at that point). It seemed to me that it was sort of a "F you all" shot. A type of shot I've smashed into to the net / fence many times when I'm frustrated.
Spot on. Exactly my thought.
I don't think it matters what emotion is behind a shot.
Many times people make errors because the main emotion behind their shot is FEAR. That's way less admirable that saying 'F you' and going for it. The best players go for their shots, and Novak did. hence him being #1.
Novak played fearless, some people may say reckless, but like the old saying goes, and an earlier poster mentioned, "fortune favors the brave'
This is why I'm less of a fed fan nowadays. Did fed "work hard" on the second match point? Nole fought off the body serve and returned it deeper and with more pace than fed had hope for. He goes for an aggressive shot and then overcooks it.
Nole goes for an aggressive shot and nails it, fed goes for one and misses it. End of story.
No **** he was bitter you think? Are you for real people?!?
This is a carbon copy of the loss he took 1 year ago, dropping 2 match points... you should cut the guy some slack.
I bet 75% of the wise guys who blubber on this forum look like clowns trying to hit a serve or a forehand.
I play a very good standard of tennis and when I lose I still show class as I was raised that way.
Listen, it's absolutely fine. I laugh at people when they tell me someone should take into account the fact that somebody is worse off than they are ergo, they must be all politically correct and put on a facade. That is NOT class.LOL Federer is not my "hero". What a strange word to use, come to think of it, I don't know if I have any "heroes". Perhaps my parents. Gandhi? Federer is just a tennis player whose game I enjoy the most, and a player I am emotionally invested in. Nothing more, nothing less.
I play a very good standard of tennis and when I lose I still show class as I was raised that way.
Good for you. Federer can learn from the way you handle your crappy 3.0 league matches.
This is simply incorrect. In fact, amongst the multiple grand slam champions, I'd say losing with class has been the modus operandi of the majority. Sampras, Laver....if anything they tended to go unrealistically far in praising people who beat them in big matches.....heck even Mcenroe was usually very complimentary of the opponent after big losses.
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Quite right. And if you, as a public figure, and as a hero to many many kids, cannot even pretend to be gracious for 30 minutes of interviews, then you have failed at a part of your profession, and as a human being.
Good for you. Federer can learn from the way you handle your crappy 3.0 league matches.
I have seen some 3.0 matches mixed doubles that can rival the level of slam finals. :twisted:
I've also heard an Atlanta 3.0 can probably give Sam Querrey a run for his money on a good day.
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( p.s I'm much higher than 3.0)
Lol you sound even more bitter than fed. Well fed and you better get used to showing abit more class from now on as djoker will continue own fed and the rest of the tour for a long time. ( p.s I'm much higher than 3.0)
Bitter? About what? You should pop open a dictionary and look up the word before using it in false contexts.
Your comment reminded me of some of the posters on this forum who claim that Federer should switch racquets because their own 4.0 level games improved after a racquet switch. You keyboard warriors are a staple of talk tennis forum. Keep up the good work.
My apologies for calling you a 3.0 when you are clearly a 3.5.
Sampras has taken his share of digs during recent times at Roger especially those gems when Roger broke his record. Was it necessary to talk of his H2H against Nadal just after Roger had broken the record? It's obvious why it was done. And of course, Bodo was just the right journo for it :roll:1. Pat Rafter disagrees about Sampras being a gracious loser. And IIRC, he did say he echoed the opinion of many fellow players
2. instead of preaching your "values", please read the interview -- you'll find that he's been very gracious to Djokovic.
It's pretty evident from your posts that you think very highly of Sampras, and you resent Federer -- you don't miss an opportunity to take a dig at him. Do I think they're correlated? absolutely!!
Lol you sound even more bitter than fed. Well fed and you better get used to showing abit more class from now on as djoker will continue own fed and the rest of the tour for a long time. ( p.s I'm much higher than 3.0)
I accept your apology, also my game did improve when I started using djokers speed pro a few years back but I wouldn't expect you or fed to change!
Oh, I did not say at ALL TIMES, but you were talking about after losing a tennis match. There most certainly have been people who showed grace after losing all sporting events in their lives.
Right. It is human nature to have primal emotional reactions like that. The mark of a sportsman, and an evolved, classy person, is the ability to see things in perspective, and give credit to the opponent....or at least fake it! HAHA!
No, I disagree completely. When you are being PAID to perform publicly, as tennis players are when they play tennis, and when they do press conferences, the public is most certainly entitled to judge you. In fact, that is the VERY thing they are being paid for. If you can't show sportsmanship and class after a loss, I"m sorry but, you could and should be judged for it.
They ARE role models. Look at the legions of drooling fanboys/girls on this forum alone. I totally agree that they should NOT be...but they are. As such, I don't think it's a stretch at all to say you are failing in a basic human duty....to be a role model to younger members of the species...this is particularly so, when you are a paid performer, idolized by kids around the world, making a paid public appearance, as Fed was at this press conference.
Come on....you're not being serious here I hope. You sound like a bright fellow....I don't care if it's 30 hours of interviews.
Yes. The past champions did. People with terminal disease (my other example) do not generally, but the magntitude of what they face.....wow...it's actually an uncomfortable example, because even using it as a contrast to Federer trivializes what those "regular" people must face.
This is not correct... I...don't know where to start....
First of all Laver's slam was being followed around the world, he had to do plenty of press, of course the media technology was different then, so I'm willing to say that their experience differs a lot, although the essence of sportsmanship is exactly the same, Fed's passive aggressive snipes would come across no better then. But more astonishing is your Sampras comment....what are you THINKING??! LOL! :-O
Actually, in many ways, one could argue that players like Mcenroe, Connors, and Borg had more pressure, as they garnered much more mainstream sports, celebrity, and general news attention than any of the players do today.
Sorry, they questions have always been like that. They are cringeworthy, they are also things the press must ask. I don't know what you mean by "more exposure"....actually, the demands on players, haven't changed that much at all. All had to do media after matches....there are more interviews now in general, but then it's over and you go home. There is more exposure through things like paparazzi...but this hasn't been much of a problem for Federer....certainly far far less than for many other athletes or celebrities.
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Right. I agree with your percentages. However, the key is that their are many other champions who did this 100% of the time, while you originally opined that "nobody" could. YES, during that 10% of the time he is failing in his duty as a human being (and a famous public role model being paid to put on public performances) to provide a noble example to kids. However, you're using a straw man here, in that you are representing my words as being a general pronouncement of failure, as if evaluating the entire lifespan. That was not the case, I was quite specific in referring to the press conference itself.
Balances out to what?? A slight jerk? I agree. I also agree that Nadal and Djoko engage in some unpalatable behaviors as well. I'm not sure what that's supposed to mean....there are far higher standards one can hold oneself accountable to (both in theory, and in reality) than Nadal and Djokovic! LOL! I'd say COMPARED to say...Jimmy Connors, they're all doing fantastic! They all beat Agassi as well! But why should Connors or Agassi be our measuring stick?
I strongly urge you to use higher standards than the above, when proclaiming that you are "sure" they are "great guys".
Own Fed and rest of the tour for long time? Hahaaahaaa
Thanks for the laugh. How long do you think? Long enuoght to get 10 majors? Just tell me how many majors do you think in this "LONG TIME" you are preaching here?
Djoker is cool and I like the guy, but his fans look like they are releasing some serious pressure from their hips from a long term repression.
Listen, it's absolutely fine. I laugh at people when they tell me someone should take into account the fact that somebody is worse off than they are ergo, they must be all politically correct and put on a facade. That is NOT class.
It's fake and it's nonsense. I want people I like to be real. Not unreachable, otherwordly saints. I live in a developing country and have seen millions of people around me who suffer daily which doesn't prevent me from being utterly disgusted when I lose something I know I shouldn't have. And I don't hide it.
The whole purpose of an interview is to KNOW what a player thinks. Why ask questions otherwise? Might as well have them do a monologue.
I often feel this is a part of American media culture. Too artificial. I'm amazed at the 'make-a mountain-out-of-a molehill' attitude both, the American and the British media have. I'm not saying it isn't prevailent here but it's definitely to a far lesser extent and if it is, it's mostly out this fancy for wanting to' westernize' yourself ( or rather take after the American 'way of life'). I want people I like to be believable. Not a bunch of robots who'll give one-track, cliched answers to everything.
You're not a hero by potraying a perfect image of yourself. An image you know is not true. You'd be cheating yourself and people who've come to like you by doing so.
Ok all the quote splitting is doing my head in, so I'm just going to post like this. In the end I think we agree, today's top players overall do balance out to be slight jerks in their own ways. The problem I have on these forums is when there is massive hypocrisy from some fans where they call one player out for one thing but treat their favourite as god's gift to earth. Why this annoys me, I do not know, this all pointless in the end anyway. Out of curiosity, which players do you feel were 100% of the time gracious in their defeats? To be honest, regarding specifically to Federer, I for one am glad he atleast made an improvement from his younger days when he was a total brat. I can't even imagine the disaster it would have been if he had managed to dominate mens tennis but still retain that attitude. However yes, we should not be looking towards Fed/Nad/Djoker for lessons in class on and off court. Having said that I respect your opinion about them failing their duties as human being etc, I can totally see where you are coming from, but I shall agree to disagree here. That's just too harsh of a line of thinking for my taste. I am young after all, not that much of cynic yet(Not saying you are old LOL). And I still don't like to judge people as downright bad or as having deep character flaws without actually knowing the person or if they are overtly obvious about it (however as you may have noticed, I have no problem judging people as good, as I said, I'm an optimist. Perhaps that will change, but I hope not). Also I agree that regardless of what we think, these guys are role models. I forgot to make that clear in my last post. Talking about role models though, I have always felt that the strengths of such figures are just as important as the weaknesses. A great role model for me is an imperfect one. Why? I think as a kid it is all too easy to be enamored by individuals in sports/entertainment etc, and idolise their every action. However you can learn as much from the weaknesses of these individuals as the strengths. Infact the day you realise that your role model wasn't perfect person you thought he was is the day you gain a valuable piece of knowledge about human nature. We are all imperfect, we all have our weaknesses. And that we have to accept these. So when I have my own kids, I am going to ensure that whatever role models they do end up having, that I point out the weakness in their character as much as their strengths. There's always two sides to a coin! That was a random tangent, anyways... I apologise if I'm not making much sense, it is 4 am here, I think I need to head to bed soon.
That shot was actually the most sensible option for Djokovic in that situation. It was a first serve so it was coming at pace. Trying to go up the line and change direction with the pace on a first serve would have much riskier than using the pace and sending it right back in the direction it came from. The other option was to hit it back cross court but with a little more margin for error inside the tramlines. But Fed had been doing that particular one-two beautifully all day. Djokovic hitting good returns(but not winners) cross court off the wide serve, throwing himself out of court in the process and Fed gliding the forehand winner up the line. Federer did it time and time again in his service games so what he did was actually Djokovic's best option to win the point. I guarantee you, Fed would have creamed the winner up the line if Djokovic just directed that back cross court without going out wide for the winner. Fed would actually have been better served by a second serve in that case when the first wasn't an ace or unplayable. Djokovic would have put the second back in play because the serve would be going slower and he would not have the risk of the open court. With the pace of a first serve, however, Djokovic's return was always going to be pacy as a result of the pace coming at him, and unless it went for a winner cross court, anything less than that and the pace would work against him to open up the court. So Djok actually made the best choice and it's not like he can't hit these returns, he did an identical one at 1-0 deuce on Fed's serve in third set. He's always capable of them once he latches on to it correctly.
And anyway this moaning is ridiculous from Fed. You'd swear Djokovic hit this "flukey" shot as he likes to call it, when Fed himself was match point down. No, he still had a match point left, it was still only deuce, Djokovic still had to serve to stay in it at 4-5, there were still 3 more games played. He has a right to hit a winner ffs. And I'm loving his selective memory. "I set it up perfectly but just didn't finish it off".He must mean Djokovic set it up perfectly for him. He did see Djokovic's service game at 3-4 right? Djokovic did a splendid choke-job with a DF and a string of UE's to gift wrap the break to love. Then Fed played a terrible game to be broken back. It was back on serve at one choke-job a piece so Federer needn't bother pretending he played oh so well, worked his socks off in the previous game to break and then Djokovic slaps this ridiculous fluke to break me back. One, you weren't broken on it, 2) It wasn't a bloody let-cord, it was a winner and 3) You were only in the position of serving for it in the first place because Djokovic played an appalling service game to be broken.
So when they were back on serve with each of their choke jobs done with, it was Djokovic who stepped up to the plate and played better from there on out. He held serve at a pressure moment at 4-5, and at the end of the 5-5 game, he played two amazing rallies in a row to break for 6-5. That break was the only break of the fifth set, "earned" by either player, so despite Fed's logic, it was Djokovic who deserved to win that set.
Making a lot of sense here.That shot was actually the most sensible option for Djokovic in that situation. It was a first serve so it was coming at pace. Trying to go up the line and change direction with the pace on a first serve would have much riskier than using the pace and sending it right back in the direction it came from. The other option was to hit it back cross court but with a little more margin for error inside the tramlines. But Fed had been doing that particular one-two beautifully all day. Djokovic hitting good returns(but not winners) cross court off the wide serve, throwing himself out of court in the process and Fed gliding the forehand winner up the line. Federer did it time and time again in his service games so what he did was actually Djokovic's best option to win the point. I guarantee you, Fed would have creamed the winner up the line if Djokovic just directed that back cross court without going out wide for the winner. Fed would actually have been better served by a second serve in that case when the first wasn't an ace or unplayable. Djokovic would have put the second back in play because the serve would be going slower and he would not have the risk of the open court. With the pace of a first serve, however, Djokovic's return was always going to be pacy as a result of the pace coming at him, and unless it went for a winner cross court, anything less than that and the pace would work against him to open up the court. So Djok actually made the best choice and it's not like he can't hit these returns, he did an identical one at 1-0 deuce on Fed's serve in third set. He's always capable of them once he latches on to it correctly.
And anyway this moaning is ridiculous from Fed. You'd swear Djokovic hit this "flukey" shot as he likes to call it, when Fed himself was match point down. No, he still had a match point left, it was still only deuce, Djokovic still had to serve to stay in it at 4-5, there were still 3 more games played. He has a right to hit a winner ffs. And I'm loving his selective memory. "I set it up perfectly but just didn't finish it off".He must mean Djokovic set it up perfectly for him. He did see Djokovic's service game at 3-4 right? Djokovic did a splendid choke-job with a DF and a string of UE's to gift wrap the break to love. Then Fed played a terrible game to be broken back. It was back on serve at one choke-job a piece so Federer needn't bother pretending he played oh so well, worked his socks off in the previous game to break and then Djokovic slaps this ridiculous fluke to break me back. One, you weren't broken on it, 2) It wasn't a bloody let-cord, it was a winner and 3) You were only in the position of serving for it in the first place because Djokovic played an appalling service game to be broken.
So when they were back on serve with each of their choke jobs done with, it was Djokovic who stepped up to the plate and played better from there on out. He held serve at a pressure moment at 4-5, and at the end of the 5-5 game, he played two amazing rallies in a row to break for 6-5. That break was the only break of the fifth set, "earned" by either player, so despite Fed's logic, it was Djokovic who deserved to win that set.