Crocodile
G.O.A.T.
There’s this backyard tennis court where I sometimes make a booking to work with some clients. The lady who owns the court lives by herself and she is 96. She is completely competent, totally with it, and in good humour. She is more functional than many people decades her junior. She even still manages her own investments. She knows everything about tennis and who are the rising stars. . She grew up in the country and ran a hair dressing business, married, had kids, was in a major accident and spent months in hospital, but over came it all and she is very measured.
Quite amazing and I keep hoping that I might be like that if I ever make it to 96.
At the other extreme I come across kids with terminal cancer, teenagers in wheelchairs as a result of a car accident or diving into a pool, then you have people taking their own lives or they may have been in the wrong place at the wrong time, committed a crime, gone to jail etc. How lucky you might be iif you were born into the right family in a good country, healthy most of the time, well defined, good looking, not fat.
At some point we will reach our peak and then eventually start to deteriorate. Sometimes you wish your body kept its biological condition you had in your 20’s. Alternatively you could have a brilliant mind with your IQ off the charts or you may such a magnetic charisma that people want to be with you.
So what is the secret of all this? Is your life a culmination of good choices, cause and effect blended in with things that just happen to you as course of life or is it something else.
The Buddhist’s always talk about the middle way as the way to live life, the Christians talk about loving one another and Stoics talk about living a virtuous life by being logical and effecting change where change was within one’s control.
Sometimes when things are going really well I try to moderate myself because becoming too euphoric can lead you to lose of awareness and then you stuff up and end up back in the doghouse. When you are in the doghouse you try to endure it and wait for the good times to return .
Does anyone have any thoughts that they wish to express. I could be talking to myself on this one but hopfully you guys maybe able to have something to say.
Quite amazing and I keep hoping that I might be like that if I ever make it to 96.
At the other extreme I come across kids with terminal cancer, teenagers in wheelchairs as a result of a car accident or diving into a pool, then you have people taking their own lives or they may have been in the wrong place at the wrong time, committed a crime, gone to jail etc. How lucky you might be iif you were born into the right family in a good country, healthy most of the time, well defined, good looking, not fat.
At some point we will reach our peak and then eventually start to deteriorate. Sometimes you wish your body kept its biological condition you had in your 20’s. Alternatively you could have a brilliant mind with your IQ off the charts or you may such a magnetic charisma that people want to be with you.
So what is the secret of all this? Is your life a culmination of good choices, cause and effect blended in with things that just happen to you as course of life or is it something else.
The Buddhist’s always talk about the middle way as the way to live life, the Christians talk about loving one another and Stoics talk about living a virtuous life by being logical and effecting change where change was within one’s control.
Sometimes when things are going really well I try to moderate myself because becoming too euphoric can lead you to lose of awareness and then you stuff up and end up back in the doghouse. When you are in the doghouse you try to endure it and wait for the good times to return .
Does anyone have any thoughts that they wish to express. I could be talking to myself on this one but hopfully you guys maybe able to have something to say.