Ok so I'm playing in my first mixed couples comp and I have some questions about etiquette. I have a pretty strong and fast first serve. What rules do I follow. Do I haut take pace off of it or do I hit her my second serve which is a kick. I have plate mixed doubles in the past and kinda just followed what the other guy serves. I have had guys that don't care and hit to my partner at probably 120mph. In fact I have never really seen guy hold back to much. So I haut copy there speed. Also what are some other unspoken rules. I want to play fair and don't want to be labeled an a-hole. I also want to win though.