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Robert-
Sorry to hear this. It's gut wrenching, particularly when you don't really know what is going on and even more so when you do and their is no clear way you can help.
Anyway, after reading all of the posts it seems that the diagnosis is fait acompli, but I would not jump to any conclusions. The first area I would try and rule out as a cause is her current meds. Sometimes this requires quite a bit of experimentation, but it's critical to determine whether or not they are a contributing factor.
For years, my mother was taking a cocktail of meds to treat various issues. At one point several years ago she was diagnosed with Parkinson's. We sought second and third opinions on this and the same diagnosis came back. However, the one thing that bothered me was that none of the doctors who diagnosed Parkinsons could explain to me the interaction between all of the drugs she was taking and whether or not they could cause her symptoms (uncontrollable shaking in her right hand).
Finally, we worked with a doctor who simplified her drug cocktail, experimented with substitutes, etc., and they were able to identify the drug that was causing the shaking. No Parkinsons was the conclusion.
Anyway, my general rule of thumb is doctors are often just as clueless as we are when it comes to diagnosing things. I realize it's extremely difficult to do, but it is critical to get it right even if it does take time.
I sure hope things work out for her.
That's very interesting. She's on a variety of drugs for high bp, depression, and neck pain.
Funny you should mention Parkinson's because one of my brothers is an alcoholic and has Parkinson's. But, he shakes so badly that he must sit on his hands. His memory is quite sharp still, but his speech is badly slurred. So, at first I thought the alcohol may have caused Parkinson's, but my ex has no shaking at all.
My guess is that since she's had memory problems for about 10 years or longer than she is slowly progressing towards some form of dementia. I would think Ollinger's suggested meds might be the way to go to give her maybe a few extra months of meaningful life. Her appointment with her GP is Tuesday and I'm going, so I'll ask a lot of questions.
-Robert