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I will try to make it short
I used to go to group lessons once a week last year, on top of all the other things, group of 4, players were good, better than me, but I could somewhat compete with them
I got injured and in the past like 8 or 9 months I haven't played any tennis, I don't know if any of you had long injuries but hopefully someone can relate how it is after a long time like that off courts
Started slowly playing now
Decided to start going to those lessons again since they are dirt cheap, on top of playing with ppl I know
Went to 1 lesson last week, feels like those ppl improved quite a bit, well they did train alot for many months while I was injured.. me of course im out of shape and form, struggled, specially with their balls
Now I had another lesson this week also, felt like I got used to the balls and all a bit better alltho still quite poor everything, much worse than I played before my injury, but slowly improving
During training the coach started yelling at me to play better and that I need to focus more and its bad, and then started saying that other players improved alot in this time and I need to play better because they want to play like they know how to play and im wasting their time... and he kept saying that for many minutes that its a waste of time for them if I will play like this, that we can't have trainings anymore etc... and he knows WELL about my history in the past months and not playing and all that..
He kept saying all these things infront of everyone and it made me feel really bad and embarassed and pissed... so then I decided to leave... and he said are you done? good...
I just want to hear opinions from ppl here, what you think about all this? I was quite shocked and felt very embarassed by this and pissed and I feel like its not the right thing to say and go about, specially infront of other ppl and I feel very mad about it.. am I in the wrong here, I would like to hear your opinions
I used to go to group lessons once a week last year, on top of all the other things, group of 4, players were good, better than me, but I could somewhat compete with them
I got injured and in the past like 8 or 9 months I haven't played any tennis, I don't know if any of you had long injuries but hopefully someone can relate how it is after a long time like that off courts
Started slowly playing now
Decided to start going to those lessons again since they are dirt cheap, on top of playing with ppl I know
Went to 1 lesson last week, feels like those ppl improved quite a bit, well they did train alot for many months while I was injured.. me of course im out of shape and form, struggled, specially with their balls
Now I had another lesson this week also, felt like I got used to the balls and all a bit better alltho still quite poor everything, much worse than I played before my injury, but slowly improving
During training the coach started yelling at me to play better and that I need to focus more and its bad, and then started saying that other players improved alot in this time and I need to play better because they want to play like they know how to play and im wasting their time... and he kept saying that for many minutes that its a waste of time for them if I will play like this, that we can't have trainings anymore etc... and he knows WELL about my history in the past months and not playing and all that..
He kept saying all these things infront of everyone and it made me feel really bad and embarassed and pissed... so then I decided to leave... and he said are you done? good...
I just want to hear opinions from ppl here, what you think about all this? I was quite shocked and felt very embarassed by this and pissed and I feel like its not the right thing to say and go about, specially infront of other ppl and I feel very mad about it.. am I in the wrong here, I would like to hear your opinions