jered
Rookie
Mixed 18 league is coming up and there was a lively discussion as my team was planning partners. One guy, let's call him Sam, is a well-known pusher. Sam is described as a pusher by everyone I have ever talked to about him and a very successful one; he rarely loses in singles. Captain wants to pair Sam with a very aggressive net player to compliment his steadiness, let's call her Sally. Sam and Sally are cool with this and start talking a little bit of strategy. This is when the team socially oblivious guy, Dick, speaks up. Dick uses the dreaded P-word in suggesting how Sam's pushing should provide a steady deuce side and to place Sally on Ad to get her forehand on the net. Sam loses it and is incredibly offended at being called a pusher declaring he's an aggressive baseliner. Dick doubles down and a few people try to diffuse things in a nice way but agree with Dick essentially. Sam threatens to leave the team due to the disrespect and Dick tries to assure him we value him specifically because he is a winning pusher. Everyone eventually calmed down but you could tell Sam was really bothered by being known as a pusher.
I was shocked. I assumed Sam knew he was a pusher (and maybe even delighted in it) but clearly he saw himself differently. He's described opponents as pushers before who play identically to him. How many pushers don't think they are pushers and are calling other people pushers being totally in denial?
I mean, I'm a basher and I know it. Trying to correct that but it's my default mode. Anyway, I was surprised by the whole thing.
I was shocked. I assumed Sam knew he was a pusher (and maybe even delighted in it) but clearly he saw himself differently. He's described opponents as pushers before who play identically to him. How many pushers don't think they are pushers and are calling other people pushers being totally in denial?
I mean, I'm a basher and I know it. Trying to correct that but it's my default mode. Anyway, I was surprised by the whole thing.