To be clear, I'm a 3.5 woman. When I play ladies (6.5 combo), no one drop-shots me, not intentionally anyway. Sometimes you will see ladies with poor stroke mechanics who cannot drive the ball, so their returns are short. These are easy to reach and I could S&V if they are not easy to reach. And the person who hit it is usually hugging the baseline, so I have plenty of court open to me.
The problem comes with 7.0 mixed. This weekend, I played a 4.0 guy who had the most unorthodox approach shot. He would take my serve, and hit what I am calling a drop shot and then follow it to net. Kind of a push or slice or some weird thing. Whatever it was, I had to race to the net to play it, and
it didn't strike me as a ball I could reasonably expect my partner to get. S&V isn't my favorite trick to try against a 4.0 guy, as they have this unfortunate way of blasting me out of my tennis shoes in a way 3.0-3.5 women do not.
So aim for the net strap and try to finesse it over cross-court, eh? And I run with my racket in front and take no backswing and use no follow-through?
I dunno, that lob idea scares me against a 4.0 guy. I can see it now. I race in, I pop it up, he stretches up for an overhead, and everything goes dark.