Background: So there's a guy that I previously worked with, have hit with, played league tennis with, etc. We get together and hit and play recreational singles matches every once in a while.
Situation: a couple weeks ago we got together to play some singles. My opponent had done an intense workout that morning so he told me he was not feeling real spry. He usually beats me so i always challenge myself to beat him.
So we start playing and we play a competitive first set but he wins 6-4. As we start the second set, it's obvious that he's getting fatigued and isn't really putting forth much of an effort. I Get up 4-0 or so. During a rally I hit a deep forehand that looked in to me but he called it out. I asked him if he was sure it was out. He said yes and I said okay. At the next changeover he asked me why I was getting on his case and questioning an out call. He said he's just out here to work on his game. I just explained that it looked in to me and he was facing the sun. I was just asking if he was sure. He got aggravated and said that he wouldn't call it out if it was even close, that's how he plays. Well, the week before we had played two high school kids that beat us badly and he called at least one obviously good serve as out and just winked at me. I brought up that fact and he got really aggravated and asked why i qas bringing up stuff from the past. As we played a few more games he refused to call any shots out, said he was going to leave it up to me. I just explained to him that according to the code I have the right to question an out call and then he has the right to confirm or change the call. He kept saying how we're just out here working on our games and that I was basically questioning his honesty.
My friend was getting increasingly upset as I just tried to explain that even if it's a recreational game I like to play by the rules and know if my shots are really in or out. This argument followed us all the way to the parking lot until he was very angrily telling me to get out of my car and call him a liar to his face (this is a 50 year old man; I'm 29).
So... Was I so wrong to question an out call in a "friendly" match? What say ye?
Situation: a couple weeks ago we got together to play some singles. My opponent had done an intense workout that morning so he told me he was not feeling real spry. He usually beats me so i always challenge myself to beat him.
So we start playing and we play a competitive first set but he wins 6-4. As we start the second set, it's obvious that he's getting fatigued and isn't really putting forth much of an effort. I Get up 4-0 or so. During a rally I hit a deep forehand that looked in to me but he called it out. I asked him if he was sure it was out. He said yes and I said okay. At the next changeover he asked me why I was getting on his case and questioning an out call. He said he's just out here to work on his game. I just explained that it looked in to me and he was facing the sun. I was just asking if he was sure. He got aggravated and said that he wouldn't call it out if it was even close, that's how he plays. Well, the week before we had played two high school kids that beat us badly and he called at least one obviously good serve as out and just winked at me. I brought up that fact and he got really aggravated and asked why i qas bringing up stuff from the past. As we played a few more games he refused to call any shots out, said he was going to leave it up to me. I just explained to him that according to the code I have the right to question an out call and then he has the right to confirm or change the call. He kept saying how we're just out here working on our games and that I was basically questioning his honesty.
My friend was getting increasingly upset as I just tried to explain that even if it's a recreational game I like to play by the rules and know if my shots are really in or out. This argument followed us all the way to the parking lot until he was very angrily telling me to get out of my car and call him a liar to his face (this is a 50 year old man; I'm 29).
So... Was I so wrong to question an out call in a "friendly" match? What say ye?