I bought an item from a dude on the big auction site. I offered him a buy it now price which he accepted thus he ended his auction and I sent him funda via paypal... 2 months later I don't have the item. What should I do- the guy stopped communicating a month ago and I don't think Paypal is going to do anything since the deal was done outside of the auction site. He lives in US and I'm in australia... what should I do or am I S.O.L.?