Peculiar moments 1

Crocodile

G.O.A.T.
Sometimes in life we can experience moments that can evoke certain emotions or thoughts that can seem quite peculiar. In the next period of time I am going share a few of them and maybe some of you can relate. This first one I would like to put a title on it and it’s called:

You should never go back

Here are some examples of what I mean:

1. Selling the house and/or leaving the suburb you grew up in and then many years later coming back and either buying the same house back or even driving past it. Have you ever heard people do that, or have you ever done that yourself ? This can be a sad, or even weird thing to do especially if some of your dear relatives have departed.
I remember going past the house where I grew up and the new people that bought it totally messed the place up, they cut down trees, kept the place like a rubbish tip and I thought, what if I bought it back and fixed it up, but then I realised that it wouldn’t be the same, all the old neighbours moved out and even the area had gone to the pack and we really got out just at the right time.

1b Here’s a thought - The place you thought was a great place to holiday in your youth is not so good now decades later, it’s actuality a pretty ordinary place with not much going on and nobody goes their now because there are better places to see and visit.

2. Example number 2 - Buying back your old car or the same make and model years later ! Sometimes we tend to look at the cars we owned years ago in rose coloured glasses especially if they become collectible now and we wished we kept them. However when we think back at the time we owned this car - it was crap then - so it should be even more crap now - but we buy it again so we can experience how crap it was once again - have you ever done that - I did that with an old sports car that I bought again years later. It was unreliable then, so now it’s even more unreliable now that it’s 10 years older, and even slower and dated, the seats soggy and the AC not up to standard,

3. Here’s a tough one - have you ever heard of someone re marry or reunite with someone they divorced years ago thinking that it would be the good old times again - I have seen this happen and in most cases it never was the same as before as people have moved on in their lives.

What do you think? Is it true that we should never go back?
 

Crocodile

G.O.A.T.
4. A 4th example just came to mind and it’s a tennis one. 20 years ago you buy this racquet and you use it for 4 years and it’s the best thing since slice bread until the new technology comes out and therefore you sell up and get the new racquet. And you have been doing that ever since, updating your equipment regularly.
20 years later the company brings back the old frame and sells it as a classic frame so you go and buy it thinking it was the same great racquet you played with 20 years ago. Unfortunately to your disappointment you are now 20 years older, you are slower, the game has changed and the racquet just feels old and cumbersome. Does this resonate with you ?
 

Crocodile

G.O.A.T.
Ultimately, everyone is alone.
Is that when you have a gathering and you are sitting in the crowd quietly observing and thinking about your life. Off course there’s nothing wrong in being in your own company or being comfortable following your own journey:
 

Crocodile

G.O.A.T.
Why is that peculiar?
Would be interesting to explore these thoughts. Definitely buying back the house you grew up in knowing that certain people are no longer there ( alive ) and the neighbours have moved on, but expecting to feel that things are still as they were back then can evoke a peculiar sense of loneliness or being left behind if that makes sense.
 

Crocodile

G.O.A.T.
There is case to be said for not going back. Ioje would have to expect that people have indeed moved on. It’s like with the marriage or long term relationship example. You marry someone while in your 20’s and let’s say you split up 5 years later and meet new people and then in another 10 years you reunite thinking that things will be the same but it probably isn’t - and people have done this especially during WW2 where people were separated by war and couldn’t return to their country due to exile only to be able to reunite years later when things were open again. However once reuniting, it’s not the same, people have changed and you would imagine that war would change you but so would having other relationships in between.
 

Sentinel

Bionic Poster
I remember going past the house where I grew up and the new people that bought it totally messed the place up, they cut down trees, kept the place like a rubbish tip and I thought, what if I bought it back and fixed it up,
Sometimes i do get to drive by the house i was born in and spent most of my life.
It was a beautiful place, done up by my mother.
After we left it was broken down and a gaudy 4 storey house built. What was our small garden is just a cement car parking area. The place has no soul. It's sad what it's become.
Some say it's been turned into a guest house. :censored:
Life sucks.
 

Crocodile

G.O.A.T.
Sometimes i do get to drive by the house i was born in and spent most of my life.
It was a beautiful place, done up by my mother.
After we left it was broken down and a gaudy 4 storey house built. What was our small garden is just a cement car parking area. The place has no soul. It's sad what it's become.
Some say it's been turned into a guest house. :censored:
Life sucks.
Yep, and sometimes you realise you can’t go back.
I thought that I could buy back my mothers house and where I grew up, However even if I did buy it an renovate it back to its former glory, it would still be not the same as she is no longer with us. The suburb has also gone to the pack and all the neighbours bar one have moved on.
 

Crocodile

G.O.A.T.
There is also a similar thing with certain cars one has owned. I have heard of stories where people have sold their car say 10 years ago and then the car has been passed on 3 times and 10 years later they buy it back,
The thin is that they were crap cars 10 years ago and were a money pit back then and then you buy it back 10 years later when it’s probably twice as unreliable now.
I even know a lady who sold a white Datsun 280zx 5 years ago and the car was on sold to another owner who resprayed it red. She went and bought it again not knowing that it was her same car she had back then and it only clicked to her once she decided to re-trim the seats and found her own business card in between the centre console and under the seat.
 

Crocodile

G.O.A.T.
Maybe sometimes things might have been better for you 25 years ago, imagine that in 1998 you played with a Volkl C10 Pro and then either owned every subsequent iteration of the 10 series or many other brands and then in 2024 you decide to go back to the racquet you used 26 years ago. Is this fair cop or illogical decision making process. You are after all 26 years older and the game has evolved or was the C10 so good that you should have never made the switch to that Yonex Percept.
 
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