Don't try to point the butt at the ball or drop the racket head. If you get a waist high rally ball to your right (forehand side), you will turn a bit to the right side and move to the ball. When you turn, position your forehand grip, keep the racket head up and between your shoulders, and close the racket face ever so slightly but this closing will happen naturally if you have a eastern or semi-western grip. From this position, find the bottom of the ball just below center and pull thru, up and across to finish you follow-thru. In reality, your hips, then shoulder, then arm rotate into the ball and your racket head make a looping back, down, up, thru and around your body motion. The position where the racket butt points at the ball/net is just a transition position in the loop and is no more important than any other position you pass thru along the loop. The loop is a kinetic chain and should begin slowing and accelerate through out the entire loop until it slows down when you wrap around your body. Relax you grip, keep racket head up and between shoulders, find the bottom of the ball with a continuously accelerating motion, on contact pull thru, up and across the ball. The racket head will drop below wrist on lower balls and may not drop as much on higher balls. Try to say the work "feel" as you make contact and finish the word "feel" as you finish the follow-thru. You are now hitting it like Fed. Good luck.
One other pointer, on really high ball - shoulder height or more - stay a little farther away from the ball as your arm has to extend a little more to get the racket up to contact. Most people crowd themselves on high balls.
When you turn to side and keep the racket in between your shoulders, some people lead back with the racket elbow. This puts the elbow up and back, hand in center, and frequently racket head is toward net in front of hand. From here, just loop to bottom of the ball.