Put your game face on and project positive energy If you're a negative Nelly this is for you. It does zero good to act like a negative cry baby. zero Put your game face on. You must show your opponent(s) and partner if dubs or mixed that nothing will get you down and you will overcome anything they dish out. If you act like a cry baby whiny ***** it only helps your opponent and hurts you. Does this make sense? If not then you need professional help. Fake it if you need too, but by all means stick together with positive body language. Stay positive no matter what. Work with your partner no matter what the score, and keep things positive between yourselves no matter what. If you're a negative Nelly, just stop it already, get over yourself and that ugly BS.