MasturB said:
I guess it comes from playing other sports...
MasturB (...lol), I don't want to say that I don't believe you, but I hope you're not like me, when I started playing. I used to think I was this greatly gifted player, that learnt to play so well so fast (and, in a way, I was). But, when I entered my first tournament, reality hit me like a speeding bullet train. Today, I have a, totally, different perspective. I can watch someone (anyone) play and, instead of thinking "
I'm better than him", I see past that. I may have prettier strokes, but do I have the same level of directional control? I may have a stronger first serve, but what proportion of them are going in? Then, there's the mental part. Federer and Nadal, f.e., would be NOTHING if their ability to focus wasn't up there with their technical abilities.
Edit: Look, I'll tell you how you can really measure how good you REALLY are. All rookies, talented or not, have two playing personalities: the practice one and the match one. As you get better, the two will slowly merge into one. The day you start to play matches with close to the same looseness with which you can practice, you'll understand what I'm saying. In the meantime, remember this, your rating level is that with which you play matches... tournament matches