@Tennis2349
Hi, replying to several posts so this one is long
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”Yes, it was far easier when your son played than today. Not much of what you are saying is relevant today…Not sure if all 11- 12 year olds should be hitting the ball 5 hours a day and are mentally up for 25 tournaments a year.”
While the reclass issue is new, tennis parents have always had to decide whether to sacrifice a normal childhood for their athlete or buck the current trend. When my son was a junior, coaches pushed kids to homeschool, to forego playing for their HS team, etc. Son’s coaches took players overseas to play jr iTFs for 3 weeks . My son wanted to go, I said you cant-he kept his UTR above the others anyway. He was the only non home school HP kid at his academy his jr/sr year. We asked if he could train 9 hours/wk instead of 20+. He tried out and they said yes. Tennis is always tough so might as well challenge your kid as a jr to compete as an underdog vs kids who board at top academies, travel with private coaches to tourneys, are several years older, etc. There is always someone with more resources. My son as a college freshman played an intl college sr to clinch the conference and NCAA slot. Once your kid is 16+, have him play adult tourneys. Now if your 12 or 13yo has to play 14 and 15yo, yes he may lose more, but he may catch up-maybe he walks on to a team but makes the lineup 2nd year. I have seen tennis walk on’s earn scholarhips and become regulars in D1 (MM) lineups.
“Plus missing out on growing up and having a normal high school experience. It makes more sense for the truly talented who only play level 1 and 2 tournaments as school will not give you an excused absence ,but most reclassing I see are kids who are good players, but don’t even qualify for higher level tournaments....”
Agree it is ridiculous for players who aren’t 4 stars+ to consider reclassing. My son was a 3 star at 8th grade start-we didn’t even consider college tennis until he was a HS soph-he played tourneys and trained to play for his HS team which was a top team in state. To decide to hold back a 11-13yo for tennis only reason doesn’t make sense. What if your kid gets injured, decides he hates the sport, has reclassed and now is 1-2 years behind the neighbors in school? I am glad my son attended 2 proms and played in 3 HS state tennis finals. When my son 1st played tourneys at 10-12yo, he trained 2hrs 2x/wk. He never trained more than 12hr/wk during school year but he did arrange matchplay outside academy.
“Agree. I think it comes down to this.
A. Parental competitiveness with other parents.
B. Tennis is ultra time consuming. And money consuming. So wanting to see some type of reward for 10 years of hard work and 300k spent.
A is stupid-kids are individuals. You decide what is best for your kid and also your family-how will going to crazy degrees for one kid’s tennis affect the other kids, family vacations, etc? When my son put MM D1 and D2 schools on his TRN list, other parents told me he could do better and I held my tongue (why pay the high OOS tuition with low athletic $$ for a 4 star to play at P5-son jumped to 5 star and almost BC after accepting MM offer early in sr year) B You are right -tennis costs too much and reclassing 1-2 years adds to the bill. You choose what tourneys are played and how many hours of training. My son didn’t play any national out of state until 15 (from FL to GA) and no Nat 1s until 16-greatly reduced travel costs. Local adults tourneys can be cheap and son won some prize $
“To have a realistic shot at playing D1. (Just a chance and actually get playing time) you will need to reclass, homeschool , and maybe you can get a partial scholarship to a school that would never be a top choice. Ok great. Playing tennis for university of Toledo Ohio.”
This may be true now for P4 D1 (esp if House settlement limits roster) but not for MM D1 (many schools cant afford to participate). The chances of Americans making the roster for a MM D1 may have increased as athletic scholarships have been cut. A player could earn an academic scholarship and play MM D1 for a reasonable cost. When my son was a freshman, there were 8 guys on his team-7 on at least partial athletic (4US/3INT) and one walk on. This year 24/25 there is only one intl on a team of 9. Son's team went to NCAAs every year except canceled ’20 and also went in ’24. My son played for two different MMs, earned an MBA, and bought a house within 2 ½ years of last match. You don’t have to play for a P4 to get a decent job-you should work internships while fitting in some summer tourneys. Dont be a tennis P4 snob...friends who played D3 had great tennis experiences. Consider also the military academies-son has friends played for AF and Navy who now are pilots.
“In my situation my son is very bright. I would never hold him back. Can get into a Georgia tech,UGA, with the hope pay very little for tuition , and study whatever you like.”
My recommendation is for your son to play to attend GT-maybe w/o reclass he will improve enough to be recruited, maybe he can walk on, or if not, GT has had nationally ranked club teams. One year GT only had 7 guys on roster. Another recent year, the #6 guy was about a UTR 11.75. Your son could try to play for or walk on to KSU, GA State, GA Southern. You are lucky to live in a state with 2 P4 publics, 3 MM publics, and several D2 publics with tennis-all cheap with Hope. However, so many kids attend KSU and GA State, that it is hard for students to graduate in 4 years unless they have priority registration-don’t know if walk on athletes do. Knew a player who walked on GSU after try out and play some duals. Now GA Southern is the best GA MM due to new HC Andrew Goodwin ( grew up in N Atlanta suburbs)-he has quite the asst coach resume but probably will be long gone to a P4 HC job by the time your son is in college. With GA State and KSU, some years they had top 75 teams-won or shared conf titles. This is a weak year for both. Before the current coach, the bottom of KSU were Georgians who played HS tennis and now mostly internationals. However, some by choice-a GA kid who was a regular at line 4 /5, had Hope but low athletic $$. He quit team to take his classes online in am and make bank teaching at clubs in the afternoon. Later GSU had 50%+ US kids. Another friend who wanted to play at GT but his UTR was 11.5 went to GT, volunteered with the women’s team one year, then joined a frat. He works for META in the Bay now.
“Someone like jcgatennismom has some good advice, but when her son was 13 they didn’t even have UTR. Reclassing wasn’t a thing …So if she did it the same way today, her kid would have zero chance.” Not true. My son probably would play at the same MM but with less athletic $$. If he hadn’t been recruited, he probably would have played club at a GA college. Also he played and beat some P5 college guys during the summers so some MM coach or D2 coach would have given him a chance at least as a walk on. He won an Atlanta prize $ tourney played by collegians before he started college.
Bottom line: Be positive. Sounds like at a minimum your son could GT and play club. maybe being the younger underdog inspires your son to step up. Also maybe the gap year rule will be changed so tennis players can play for 12 months post HS graduation w/o losing eligibility. TRN and USTA if they don’t care about age will risk losing tennis players to pickleball. Our neighborhood now has jr tennis and pball but Atlanta doesn’t have jr p-ball leagues yet. If ALTA adds jr p-ball and HS eventually replace tennis with p-ball, junior tennis will be decimated and left to the elite. My husband and I didn’t play tennis before our son started playing ALTA rec league. If he was 9 now in 2025, we probably would just buy him a p-ball paddle and he never would have try real tennis.
We didnt even think about reclassing my son. If we had, he probably would have played P5 as he had some big wins vs blue chips and collegians his sr year which could have been his jr year. But we have no regrets. We tried to provide as normal a life as possible with him playing 80+ tourney matches a year, plus HS matches, even still doing Boy Scouts through 10th grade. He didnt get burnt out. He still loves tennis but other outdoor activities as well. He still tries to play one Future a year. Where he currently lives is not a tennis hot spot. However a guy his age former ITA top 40 moved to his city so they try to hit a couple x a week. Somehow tennis guys find each other. I am very glad my son took up tennis as a 9yo ALTA U10 C level player-never would have guessed at the time he would ever play college tennis. He has met very interesting people through tennis and some have become his best friends.