I won a mixed doubles match today 6-0, 6-1, and my opponent asked me if I was a computer-rated 3.0. Thats a subtle way to imply that I'm sandbagging. I looked him up on tennislink and he has been a 3.0 or less since 2002! How can someone not improve in 6 years of league tennis? We were playing in the #2 spot. Just 9 months ago I lost to the players that were on the #3 spot of the opposing team today.
I would rather lose a match than blowout my opponents. I won a mixed doubles match today 6-0, 6-1, and my opponent asked me if I was a computer-rated 3.0. Thats a subtle way to imply that I'm sandbagging. I looked him up on tennislink and he has been a 3.0 or less since 2002! How can someone not improve in 6 years of league tennis? We were playing in the #2 spot. Just 9 months ago I lost to the players that were on the #3 spot of the opposing team today.
Raiden, why do always feel it necessary to put your opponents down? Maybe, just maybe, that person has some other things going on in their life, and tennis isn't their sole focus. Maybe they play for other reasons than you. Maybe they've been injured. Maybe his goal isn't improvement, and he is happy right where he is. Maybe he has other things going on in his life and doesn't spend time looking up every 3.0 player in the league.
I know this sounds harsh, but it seems like you never have anything positive to say in your posts...it is always about how you are so good and how your opponents are so bad and how you've improved sooo much. I don't doubt that you work hard and you have improved, but your posts border on obsession IMO, and not a healthy one at that. Why is it that you play? What is your goal? Remember, as good as any of us may be, there are always plenty of people able and willing to kick our butts!
Raiden, why do always feel it necessary to put your opponents down? Maybe, just maybe, that person has some other things going on in their life, and tennis isn't their sole focus. Maybe they play for other reasons than you. Maybe they've been injured. Maybe his goal isn't improvement, and he is happy right where he is. Maybe he has other things going on in his life and doesn't spend time looking up every 3.0 player in the league.
I know this sounds harsh, but it seems like you never have anything positive to say in your posts...it is always about how you are so good and how your opponents are so bad and how you've improved sooo much. I don't doubt that you work hard and you have improved, but your posts border on obsession IMO, and not a healthy one at that. Why is it that you play? What is your goal? Remember, as good as any of us may be, there are always plenty of people able and willing to kick our butts!
I don't know what 3.5's are like where you live, but in my region (Chicago area) the line between 3.5 and 4.0 is extremely blurred. In the local leagues here, unless a guy is completely destroying people at the 3.5 level (not just by wins but by consistent lop-sided set scores) it's hard to target someone for sandbagging. Almost every 3.5 team has at least a few "borderline" or better players. You have to have guys this good to compete here.
My advise would be to enjoy the success of your team. If this guy is truly a 4.0, let the computer take care of it. Just my $.02
BTW there are people who spend their entire tennis playing time in leagues at 3.0 or 3.5. It is not really that uncommon.
I looked him up on tennislink and he has been a 3.0 or less since 2002! How can someone not improve in 6 years of league tennis? We were playing in the #2 spot. Just 9 months ago I lost to the players that were on the #3 spot of the opposing team today.
Everyone reaches a level and remains there. Maybe they have attained their comfort level and have no desire to go up; maybe they have reached the utmost level of their abilities; maybe they don't have the time to devote to getting better. None of the reasons are as important as just having fun and enjoying life. Know what, you'll reach your limit as well and in many aspects of life. It is just the natural order of things. Being the best you can be doesn't mean you'll be the best.
Oh, one more thing. After hopefully reaching your potential, guess what direction you are looking at. Be nice to the people you meet on your way up the ladder of life. You'll likely meet them again on your way down the ladder.![]()
You know, my husband attended the NY Marathon this weekend (he didn't run, he supported some friends who ran). He said he saw a graphic that showed the distribution of times of all of the male runners. The times were all over the map, as you'd expect. Then the graphic showed the times of the runners adjusted for age (I don't know how this adjustment was made, but it was made). The bell curve shrank dramatically, and the times of the geezers matched up nicely with the times of the young pups once age was considered. I don't know how old Raiden's opponent was, but I do know this: age matters in athletic pursuits. A lot.
Cindy -- whose friends are planning to train and run the Dublin Marathon in a year and who is Not Not Not going to run a marathon
What league do you play in?? Where is your court?