No longer reaching the heights of the sport
At least the fall won't be to far from the ground.
When I fat shamed Ostapenko in another thread (something she can change) you had a problem with it, but now you're taking a jab at Schwartzman's height (something he can't change) and now it's ok?
Manlets are an oppressed species
Yea see people can body shame (or not even body shame, just shame lmao) men all they want, nobody cares, no consequences. But look at some of the daisies jumping on me when I called Ostapenko fat?
Diabetes and heart failure are in fashion, bud. Deal with it.
I'd rather my friends tell me that I look like a fat bum instead of sugarcoating that it's alright to be fat. No it's not alright, just like Bill Burr once said - your organs aren't giving you a standing ovation you fat F's.
I was. Not just fat women, but fat people overall. I'm not sexist, I roast all fat people equally.
People can exert some control over their weight, but not their height.
I don’t believe a Word you say. I’m 100% convinced that if a person made a fat person joke in the other thread that you would explode.
Of course i mean if somebody jokes about ostapenko‘s (or another female players) weight, obviously
Obviously it wouldn’t work now because you would loose face…
What you would rather be told about yourself is not what everyone else rathers be told about themselves. Fat shaming is not absolutely necessary as we know that obesity is linked to mental and physical issues. If it was easy for obese people to lose weight then a lot of them surely would rather than live with the health issues linked to it but it's complex. I feel confident that I'm much more fit than the average person my age but that doesn't mean it's fair game for me to dump on others that don't have my discipline and work ethic to eat well and exercise.
I don't think Ostapenko is fat. She moves well and hits the ball hard. Maybe that's her playing weight?
It's the other way round.
Fat-shaming is one of those words that has developed to be used in a completely wrong context. It goes without saying that i won’t randomly insult or discriminate people for being obese, however, nowadays some people demand that you find fat people exactly as attractive as normal-sized ones or try to prohibit people from saying that obesity is unhealthy which is simply a fact.
Wasn't the fashion of chubbier girls way more prominent in the 50's or 60's though?
That's exactly my point. I mean come on Ostapenko isn't gonna read my post that I called her fat lol.
Would you call your female friends fat though?
There is literally zero advantage of being fat over being fit and everyone I know who put in the effort to lose weight has confirmed me that he is way more happy with his life after weight loss. Three years ago I gained 8 kilos over three months due to lot of work and trash food as well as gym being closed due to COVID but had zero issues about my family/wife/friends telling me, as it motivated me to get fit again.
I would, but I would be way more tactful and would do more research than just going straight out to start a conversation calling them fat f***s like I would my male friends without thinking twice lol.
No idea to be honest. It shouldn’t be portrayed as an ideal though imho, as it comes with a lot of health risks and way more unpleasant life style. Not talking few kilos above ideal weight here but being seriously obese.
Shaming someone tends to make them retreat into the behavior you shame them for, either defiantly or out of fear. Even if the behavior outwardly changes, the psychological transformation necessary to sustain the new lifestyle doesn't usually take place and the behavior re-emerges in a matter of time. Besides this, basic kindness and decency suggests we not shame people. It really isn't our place to try to affect other people's lifestyle changes, especially in an ineffective manner. Developing a friendship with someone is the best way to get through to them, if that's even the best thing to try to do. Btw I believe advocating for healthy bodies is definitely a good thing done properly, and is different from shaming those who are overweight which is wrong.
Haha thanks bud, but just for the record that was only for few months. Never was “fat” before and never will be again. Sorry but to vain to let “fat man” uncommentedAnd that's beautiful. Good job, man.
Good job ex-fat man
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Yea you know what I meant lolHaha thanks bud, but just for the record that was only for few months. Never was “fat” before and never will be again. Sorry but to vain to let “fat man” leave uncommented
There is a lot of room between “shaming” or “insulting” people for being fat and encouraging them by telling (lying to) them that being fat has zero downsides is not unhealthy and that fat people are just as attractive as fit ones. Personally I would never tell people who I don’t know well uninvited that they are fat or unhealthy but if someone asks me my opinion I don’t sugarcoat or lie.
We could argue all day about the level of fat shaming that is acceptable. I mean when I see a male friend after 3 months f.e. and he clearly let himself go there's no way I'm not starting the conversation other than commenting on his weight lmao. Another thing would be talking about his weight all day, now that's too much.
I did understand, no worry. yea stress at work or life is very dangerous here for bad eating habits. Great stuff though that you are back on track.
Perfect post.
You're probably going to create some resentment in him towards you, even if he does lose weight. For the record, I lost 70 lbs in 7 months not too long ago, so I'm speaking from experience. I just became unhappy with my weight and decided to do something about it. Shaming from those close to me kept me in the same ditch and it was getting away from that for an extended period of time that lead to that inner desire for change. Plus the realization of what a tragedy it was to deny the females around me access to the really, really, ridiculously good looks which the weight was concealing.
I did that to a lot of my male friends and nobody ever had a problem with it, because they knew deep down I was right. They knew they let themselves go, that they had to do something about it and just need a little kick in the b*** to start to change. I'm not doing it to F with them, but for them to man up and do something about it. Direct communication. With girls you need to be a lot more tactful and wait for the right moment and do it more jokingly.
