I understand what you're trying to say, but at the end of the day how is this fair to the other players in the league that are playing by the rules?
That seems to be the big disconnect in these dicusssions.
Why is it fair for you to cheat just so you can play tennis?
because the option is not to play at all (ie. i accidently self rate too high, and no coaches will take me on their team and play me).
"don't hate the playa, hate the game"... (ie. the ntrp rating system)
i have one guy on my team that self rated as a 5.0.... he was terrible.
he appealed down to 4.5, just to play on our team... and he was still terrible. we'd only use him when there was absolutely no else to play, and no one ever wanted to play with him because it was an automatic loss. if we fill a full squad, he won't play at all. if i were him, i'd have self rated at 3.5 or 4.0, and worked my way up to getting bumped to the appropriate level.
if you look at leagues as pseudo ladder, it's not cheating at all, just a natural way for folks to settle on the level they are intended to be at (working from the bottom up).
sure, folks who've been in the league for years, who end up getting clobbered by guys "working their way up", get annoyed because they can't win. but IMO, i should be grateful that I have a never ending stream of 5.0's that can beat me up (I learn from them). in the end, I am not playing league to win some stupid rec trophy (or "go to nationals"). I like the competition (win or lose... and even when I lose, I "win" - eg play someone better than me), not the shiny medal/hardware for winning.
if anything, the process for getting rated should change.
visual ratings doesn't work/not accurate.
maybe new folks would have play ntrp tournaments 2-3 times (or enough times to be able to to play 2-3 folks with computer ratings), to determine their correct rating.
or a flex ladder thing where matches count toward ratings
or tighter computer scrutinization on new players entering the system.
etc...