1) You are trying to make us believe that we are trying to put Nadal as the "goat" (what a stupid name) instead of Federer just to be able to scream like a girl and claim we have no arguments.
I don't fall in this trap.
We are talking about Federer. Everything you throw about Nadal is out of the subjectf.
2) You don't get it again. There is a big difference between a H2H very contested, with one player leading, then another, and with just a +1 and a H2H with a +7 and who has always been dominated by one player.
The logic is very simple.
The mystical image of the best of all time don't go with a player losing so much times against his main rival.
But it doesn't go with someone who hasn't won the French Open, or hasn't won US Open... and someone has to be the best. For someone to be the best ever, it's important to remember they need not be perfect.