By that logic, I could say it was absurd for Serena to hold the "hand incident" against Henin because the fact is, most players would not have owned up to it.
When the umpire asks you and you blatantly lie to the umpires face. Most players would have owned up to it because most players don't have a history of cheating. It wasn't the first time henin cheated against another player. Hell she even cheated against her own countrywoman clisjters.
No wonder many players hated her attitude. The hand incident is in a different league to the vika-serena incident.
When a player like henin has to resort to cheating a match against a rival thats when it stops being a rivalry. You'd never see such a thing with serena against venus or sharapova/vika or any other player.
The serena-vika incident was due to poor umpiring and poor linejudges.
Serena even corrected the linejudge saying it was in.
But Nouni played a replay because the linejudge made a mistake.