... over the weekend and was a great read. I found it quite insightful and the explanation about the two selfs and the games people play with themselves and on the court are really refreshing.
With that said, I felt like the book was more helpful in focusing on the learning process . When it came to the topic of nerves , competition and playing scared, I found it to be a bit generic.
It kept reiterating about how one needs to quiet down Self 1 , so that Self 2 can be free and to play for Joy and in the moment but there were no concrete steps for achieving this state of mind. The author himself admitted that is something you cannot fully control and that you just have to let Self 2 take over. The view of looking at your opponent not as competition but someone who is a partner trying to make you play better is logical and makes sense, but trying to convince yourself of that when you have match point against you while preparing for your second serve is not that easy. I feel that I need more "hand holding" through this process.
As someone who tends to to really tense up in matches given who I play and what the score of the match is, I didn't find the book that useful in addressing this specific aspect of the game.
I totally concede that I may have missed some main points of the book and was hoping that someone who has read the book and used it successfully in order to overcome crippling nerves could enlighten me a bit.
Any input is greatly appreciated,
Leo
With that said, I felt like the book was more helpful in focusing on the learning process . When it came to the topic of nerves , competition and playing scared, I found it to be a bit generic.
It kept reiterating about how one needs to quiet down Self 1 , so that Self 2 can be free and to play for Joy and in the moment but there were no concrete steps for achieving this state of mind. The author himself admitted that is something you cannot fully control and that you just have to let Self 2 take over. The view of looking at your opponent not as competition but someone who is a partner trying to make you play better is logical and makes sense, but trying to convince yourself of that when you have match point against you while preparing for your second serve is not that easy. I feel that I need more "hand holding" through this process.
As someone who tends to to really tense up in matches given who I play and what the score of the match is, I didn't find the book that useful in addressing this specific aspect of the game.
I totally concede that I may have missed some main points of the book and was hoping that someone who has read the book and used it successfully in order to overcome crippling nerves could enlighten me a bit.
Any input is greatly appreciated,
Leo