I never said I'm unwilling to take responsibility. I said that both server and net person have roles to play and that both are important for holding serve. I disagreed with your "90%" estimate.
I elaborated on my "90%" estimate in the post you quoted... that high responsibility estimate is assumed by the stronger server, for the reasons I discussed. I typically only experience this in mixed, not in men's doubles.
The exception would be if the server [typically the guy] has a next-level serve that can simply overwhelm the other team and he's off that day. Then, as the server, I'd tell my partner "my bad; my serve just isn't working today".
At the risk of sounding self-aggrandizing, I am that guy with the "next level" serve at my level, but with a ground game that needs work. On days when I am not hitting aces and unreturnable serves though, the other team zeroes in on my partner with the "hit to the woman" strategy, which forces me to try to do more and more with any/every ball I touch - and unfortunately, as I noted, my ground game needs work, so if I can't come up with a winner on the only ball after the serve that I may touch in a point, which may be the opponents return to me, it's likely just going to be the other team hitting to my partner for the duration of the point.
I try not to blame my partner for anything. I try to figure out solutions to problems.
You should talk to the women I play with that have patty-cake serves, because the worse their serve is, the more they complain and blame me for not helping them hold their serve enough... meanwhile if I sell out to poach, and the other team hits behind me, my partner is still standing on the baseline where they served it...
I don't have a big serve so I don't expect my partner to poach. It also depends on how comfortable they are poaching: if they aren't comfortable in general, they're not going to suddenly be able to flip a switch during a match. But if they are open to suggestion, I might tell them to poach occasionally just to try and get in the returners' heads.
I tell all my partners to go for any ball they feel they can get a racquet on. I am not worried if they're stretching for a ball and shank it or anything else, but for me, it's about giving them confidence and breaking them out of the mentality that they need to play in their half or quarter of the court and nowhere else. I do ask them to hit an easy shot at the net with pace or angle or both, and away from the other players, and they try. When they are unable to do so, I do not bust their chops, but I just tell them to forget about it and next time go out wide or whatever. On my mixed team the former captain was a pretty chauvanistic *******. He'd tell women just to patty cake the ball in, and let the man take care of everything... he'd tell them just keep the point alive long enough for the man to put it away... the few women that reamain on the team are afraid they're going to catch sh*t for double faulting here and there or for going for a poach and not putting it away... since I stepped in as captain, my intention has been to encourage these women to play dynamically, be bold, be brave, go for that shot if you feel like you can make it, etc.
If I knew my partner was poaching [ie she signalled] and the returner went DTL and we lost the point, that's my fault. I was supposed to cover DTL and I failed.
If I didn't know my partner was poaching [ie it was opportunistic, especially during the rally], then I certainly wouldn't blame my partner. I'd say "good shot" and move on.
If it's a planned poach, that's one thing, but if it's something like an errant return of serve that is close to the middle and I leap over to poach it, I need my partner to be shading towards the open court behind me because the chances are that if I don't put the ball away, that's where it's coming next and I won't have time to reverse my travel and get back to cover that alley area I just left behind. I need a player that can dynamically respond to the point like this and not stand there until I yell out "switch" every time. Communication is great and important, but sometimes there's not time for it, and my partner needs to be able to respond dynamically and independently and move without the ball, just like I try to do.
Why does it have to be "either/or"? The other team will figure this out quickly and all uncertainty will be removed. I don't want the returner to be that comfortable. Even at the expense of losing some points, I want to establish uncertainty.
I am talking about weak patty cake serves without placement. Returning such a serve, the opponent can put the ball extremely wide and away from the net player, and in order to go and get that ball the net player will have to be moving before the opponent hits it. I see this ALL the time when I am returning a weak serve, and when I see that guy cheating over, I simply go down the line behind them. The reason it has to be either or is because the net person can't be in 2 places at once, and if the serve is so weak that the opponent has time to do whatever they want with it, the net person becomes a soccer goalie on a penalty kick at that point... pick a place and go with it, and hope you guess correctly, because that's all you have - a guess.
Again, no one ever wrote that partners should abandon responsibility. If my serve is weak relative to the opponents' returns, then that's a problem we have to work out. My serve isn't suddenly going to improve so we have to try things: different formations, different placement, different spin, etc. It's not just the server's responsibility, IMO: I as the net man have to do everything I can to help my server partner out.
And all I said was that in my estimate, regardless of how strong your serve is, you bear at least half of the responsibility for holding it. Certainly as the net player, I do everything I can to help my partner out too, that's a given.
What if you occasionally poached just to see if you could disrupt the opponent's shot? Even if you get burned DTL, it might pay off later in the match when you fake poach.
I assumed everyone did this already. I certainly do. In fact, I will poach until the opponents beat me down the line twice (or sometimes more). If they beat me down the line once, OK, maybe it was a fluke, if they do it again and it was clearly not a mishit accident, then fine, I'll be more conservative (and ask my serving partner to change up where she's hitting her serve).
Great strategy. I try to do the same.
Thanks, but I assumed again that this was universal and everyone did it... is that not the case?
Why? Did you tell her not to cross or is it based on her tendencies and abilities? I would encourage my female partner to cross if that's what it takes to get the best volley. I tell her not to worry about DTL; that's my task.
I wish I knew why... I don't know why. I tell them to go for any ball they feel like they can get a racquet on. I have my suspicions that a lot of women are jaded from playing with "ballhog" men (mostly because so many of them complain about ballhog men), and get in their heads that they play on THIS side of the court and THIS side only and so on and so forth... they never seem to mind if they're playing with a "ballhog" that puts everything away and wins matches for them 6-0, 6-0, but that's a rare situation in my estimateion because I've seen the players who are good enough to do that quickly moving to higher level, more challenging play...
I don't think our approaches are all that much different.
I don't either. I think we're disagreeing on what we define as the percentage of responsibility the server bears for holding serve, and by that I don't mean 50% vs. 30%, I mean what objective things constitute the portion (whatever number it is) of responsibility each partner bears. I.e. what I'm calling "at least 50%" is probably something like 30% in your mind, and I've got no major beef with that. With my original statement about "50% to 90%" what I was really railing about was the people who patty cake the ball in, but can't place it AT ALL, and brag about how they never DF, but expect their partner to be Superman and go through heroics to help them hold their serve. In essence, these people have abandoned what I consider to be their "half" of their responsibility for holding their serve.