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Damon or Stefan?


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, perhaps some profiles who voted have deleted their accounts? I am not sure. I dont rem who were the ones who voted for these options.
nacho, probably, voted for stefan, me voted for damon, and someone else voted for stef, thats why it shows the way it is (not full story), more like
 
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If we stop arguing then this thread could die. It reached 1800+ posts because of Me arguing with the Fedfather and now with you on Delena vs Stelena. @Barton and @Nachoman run these threads based on people arguing.

Yes the poll votes seem odd, perhaps some profiles who voted have deleted their accounts? I am not sure. I dont rem who were the ones who voted for these options.
What’s the point of arguing anyway. You won’t be able to change my mind and I, yours. It’s just a waste of time. Also, I think I upset Bart with the ‘real men don’t watch TVD’ blah blah stuff.
 
What’s the point of arguing anyway. You won’t be able to change my mind and I, yours. It’s just a waste of time. Also, I think I upset Bart with the ‘real men don’t watch TVD’ blah blah stuff.

Yeah, we won't change our views.

Nobody is convincing me that Stefan was better in the show when I clearly know lot of women loved damon and not just women, the audience in entirety accepted Damon more, plus acting skills too were better for Damon while Stefan acted in a bland way.

@Barton is not that upset with your comment as he must be from the downfall of Stelena and the rise of Stelena.
 
And maybe @alexio is upset too along with Barty boy. @Barton
frankly, we werent close interlocutors, like say nacho or beerus (thru my observation though), even though we are almost the compatriots (russia, ukraine and belarus are kinda close sisters who have same root, so shes from one of those two), also sometimes i liked to talk with her in our native/first language, ngl....so, again, not as close as you, hari
 
frankly, we werent close interlocutors, like say nacho or beerus (thru my observation though), even though we are almost the compatriots (russia, ukraine and belarus are kinda close sisters who have same root, so shes from one of those two), also sometimes i liked to talk with her in our native/first language, ngl....so, again, not as close as you, hari
Oh and here I thought she was Americano.
 
Yeah, we won't change our views.

Nobody is convincing me that Stefan was better in the show when I clearly know lot of women loved damon and not just women, the audience in entirety accepted Damon more, plus acting skills too were better for Damon while Stefan acted in a bland way.

@Barton is not that upset with your comment as he must be from the downfall of Stelena and the rise of Stelena.
Damon’s character was definitely more complex and he did do an excellent job with the role, no doubt.
 
Yeah, we won't change our views.

Nobody is convincing me that Stefan was better in the show when I clearly know lot of women loved damon and not just women, the audience in entirety accepted Damon more, plus acting skills too were better for Damon while Stefan acted in a bland way.

@Barton is not that upset with your comment as he must be from the downfall of Stelena and the rise of Stelena.
Barton is a strange case, really. He wants to be Casanova like Damon and surrounded by girls but then he goes and likes Stefan.

That then makes me wonder, if Damon was actually called ‘Stefan’, would he have then liked him better? I can’t help but think that the name has a serious effect on our real life Stefan.
 
Barton is a strange case, really. He wants to be Casanova like Damon and surrounded by girls but then he goes and likes Stefan.

That then makes me wonder, if Damon was actually called ‘Stefan’, would he have then liked him better? I can’t help but think that the name has a serious effect on our real life Stefan.

Barton, Fedfather and many others are those who got fooled into Stefan-Elena relationship and thought it is how the ideal man-woman relationship is, well far from it. Damon from the first episode itself told us viewers that he and elena would end up together, but the idea of Stelena was marketed to audience just to pull the rug from under their feet. No wonder they felt upset and stopped watching the show, etc

Stefan and Elena to me always resembled a very dull relationship, I mean it is like those married couples who've been together for some years and now lack any spice their relationship. Stefan-Elena never resembled a teenage romance, he is supposed to be like 17 in the show when he was turned a vamp and even Elena was like 17 or 18, yet we had Stefan try to look so boring in the school, always holding himself back, trying to get into the football team and what not, in stark contrast Damon's life was fun, thats how it is always meant to be and girls like such men....
 
Barton is a strange case, really. He wants to be Casanova like Damon and surrounded by girls but then he goes and likes Stefan.

That then makes me wonder, if Damon was actually called ‘Stefan’, would he have then liked him better? I can’t help but think that the name has a serious effect on our real life Stefan.
Name does have an effect, but I also like Stefan's character. And Damon was no Casanova.
 
Stefan was a loser, Elena while dumping him said that Stefan had become a crybaby. Truth is Stefan and Elena had no love, whatever attraction they had was became of a spell casted by Marcos 1500 years ago to draw the doppelgangers together. So Stefan really had no chemistry with Elena and he was low on libido too, Elena kinda disliked this and dumped him in the end.
 
Anyway, regardless of either of Stefan or Damon being winners/losers

I feel I should re-watch the Vampire Diaries once again from the 1st episode onwards to get the feel of those days back, the series can be refreshing to revisit. Season 1 feels good to watch, the actors all look so young and they instant take us back to the old days.
 
I only read a few random isolated posts, I really have no clue what they’re talking about here.
Some say this is a girlish show, so I must be very macho.
  • Target Demographic:
    The CW, the network that aired the show, explicitly targeted women aged 18-34 and saw strong growth in this demographic with the premiere of The Vampire Diaries.
  • First Place Finishes:
    The show frequently ranked first in its time slot for key female demographics, such as women 18-34 and female teens, demonstrating its significant appeal to these groups.
 
Anyway, regardless of either of Stefan or Damon being winners/losers

I feel I should re-watch the Vampire Diaries once again from the 1st episode onwards to get the feel of those days back, the series can be refreshing to revisit. Season 1 feels good to watch, the actors all look so young and they instant take us back to the old days.
Why not watch something new?
 
  • Target Demographic:
    The CW, the network that aired the show, explicitly targeted women aged 18-34 and saw strong growth in this demographic with the premiere of The Vampire Diaries.
  • First Place Finishes:
    The show frequently ranked first in its time slot for key female demographics, such as women 18-34 and female teens, demonstrating its significant appeal to these groups.
Thanks for the data.
It seems you were accurately targeted.
 
Damon could have been but he didn’t have the patience for it. What do you have in common with Stefan outside the name?

Name should not play a role IMO.... I mean by barton's logic he ought to be a fan of Stefan-os Tsitsipas too, lol...

Name should not matter.

We are both good men who respect women's choices.

Even Damon respected Elena's choice, thats why he gave her back her necklace so that he wanted his relationship with her to be organic and not forced like it was with Caroline. By the way, Caroline herself had a thing for being slightly slutty in S1 and that Vickie, she was a complete slu-t. Damon treated these women badly, yes but they were not that classy to begin with and they were looking for trouble by hanging out with the wrong crowd. He always treated Elena well, so he did respect her choices most of the times, at times he did not and that was for her own good. Stefan saved Matt and let Elena become a Vampire, how great was that ?

Lets not pretend Stefan was that great, yes he was a gentleman and good in S1, we get it but he too did questionable things.
 
Name should not play a role IMO.... I mean by barton's logic he ought to be a fan of Stefan-os Tsitsipas too, lol...

Name should not matter.



Even Damon respected Elena's choice, thats why he gave her back her necklace so that he wanted his relationship with her to be organic and not forced like it was with Caroline. By the way, Caroline herself had a thing for being slightly slutty in S1 and that Vickie, she was a complete slu-t. Damon treated these women badly, yes but they were not that classy to begin with and they were looking for trouble by hanging out with the wrong crowd. He always treated Elena well, so he did respect her choices most of the times, at times he did not and that was for her own good. Stefan saved Matt and let Elena become a Vampire, how great was that ?

Lets not pretend Stefan was that great, yes he was a gentleman and good in S1, we get it but he too did questionable things.
I could never stand Vickie no matter what. The most annoying perhaps followed by Rebecca.
 
Is that how you see things? What about Elena? Why did she choose to date Stefan who was not worth dating, because he was a vampire?

Told ya, Bart and Stefan Salvatore are no different, in 2025 they are still sulking over Elena turning vampire ... this was Stefan's fault you know, he should not have saved Matt over Elena, what type of a lover was he of Elena ????
 
Is that how you see things? What about Elena? Why did she choose to date Stefan who was not worth dating, because he was a vampire?
Elena was good for letting Stefan tap that peak human ass.
 
Elena was good for letting Stefan tap that peak human ass.
And then you say Stefan was a gentleman like you and respected Elena’s choices, lol.

So Stefan was then only after that human peak ass. Good that Elena ended up with Damon then.
 
I could never stand Vickie no matter what. The most annoying perhaps followed by Rebecca.

I like Rebekkah. She is a bit arrogant and having insecurities but good for casual dating for a while, later can break up. Vickie is terrible, cannot stand her at all. She was only fit for a 1 night stand or smoking weed and having a wild night, nothing more.

Caroline was also like Rebekkah but she became better as time progressed. I like both Caroline and Rebekkah, maybe Caroline is better, we can agree there. Stefan's love Valerie was also good, I liked her too, she and Stefan were a good pair.
 
And then you say Stefan was a gentleman like you and respected Elena’s choices, lol.

So Stefan was then only after that human peak ass. Good that Elena ended up with Damon then.
Damon killed Elena's biological parents once. I also have a theory that Damon killed Elena's adoptive parents too.
 
Stefan killed towns of people as a ripper, he killed those 2 girls living in Tennessee... what a bad man he was....

 
I am salty that I didn't become the OP of this thread. My original post where I explained how much of a fan I am was deleted.
 
Damon killed Elena's biological parents once. I also have a theory that Damon killed Elena's adoptive parents too.
We cannot accept theories. By the way, you dodged the question. Was it Elena’s peak ass (lol) that mattered to you …err Stefan the most?
 
I am salty that I didn't become the OP of this thread. My original post where I explained how much of a fan I am was deleted.
Yeah, you should have been the true owner of this thread, no doubt. Nacho should be locked up forever. Bad, bad Nacho…
 
We cannot accept theories. By the way, you dodged the question. Was it Elena’s peak ass (lol) that mattered to you …err Stefan the most?
It mattered to me. I was rooting for Stefan to smash.
 
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