I'm going to assume you missed the part of socallefty's post where he stated, his opponent brought him the balls to the bench and instead of just taking them. He then threw them back on the court? If you missed that part, then maybe it would explain your confusion on the passive aggressive and throwing the balls back comment.
I didn't miss that part because it doesn't exist. OTOH, he did write:
Very occasionally, an opponent might hand me the balls at the bench and I usually will slowly roll the balls over to the side I’m going to serve from.
"threw them back on the court" and "slowly roll the balls" have very different connotations.
If he had indeed thrown them back on the court, I'd agree with you that this would seem a bit passive/aggressive.
I don't see any problem with slowly rolling them.
You've still yet to explain, why do you need to take the balls out of your pocket and drop them on the ground? What purpose does it serve?
I wrote "I take the two balls out of my pocket and drop them near the service area..."
The reason I do this seems obvious to me: I'm done serving and we're changing sides which means my opponent will be serving next [so he needs the balls] and we're switching sides [so the balls should be where I was].
I must be missing something or I didn't describe what I do in enough detail. This seems like a logical thing to do. Not the only thing but one option. And it's normal for me and my diverse group.
Does it speed up the game? No. Does it make it easier for your opponent? No. Does it ensure the balls aren't lost or stolen? No.
It speeds up the game relative to me tossing them elsewhere, like into a corner, into the next court, or over the fence.
Does it speed up the game more than if I had brought them to the bench? I don't know: I've never timed the two and compared. Within a margin of error of a few seconds, I would think they're about the same.
Again, no one in my wide circle has ever made a point about it.
Even if you ensure the balls don't hit each other on the drop, they're still balls that are designed to bounce and roll. They're not going to stay in place wherever you drop them. There is some inevitable scatter.
Yes, and just like a good target shooter, I account for the bounce and roll so they end up around the service area. It's not particularly difficult, seeing as I'm already in the service area in my scenario.
However, let's say I'm up and net when the game ends. I'll take the ball out of my pocket and roll/bounce it to the service area. I won't be perfect but it will be in the general vicinity.
If the ball ends up on his side, I might scoop it up with my racquet and toss it to him. Or not. It's kind of contextual and I have thought about it a lot more in this thread than in all of the years I've played tennis.
Why wouldn't you just take them back to the opponent so he actually has two balls too start his service game?
I could. It just never occurred to me since it's not the norm and I don't see much downside of doing it my way.
if the opponent requested them, I would comply [unless I thought he was doing to try and exert control].
That actually speeds up the changeover, makes its easier for your opponent, and ensures the balls aren't lost or stolen.
- The difference in time is minimal. I waste more time towelling off one more time.
- It doesn't make it easier for my opponent if he clearly doesn't want them when he sits down but again, the margin of "easier" is so small as to be unnoticeable
- The only time I worry about someone else on an adjacent court taking the ball is when it rolls on to their court, in which case I will go to retrieve it. I can't say I remember ever losing a ball because I didn't immediately gather them and bring them to the bench vs just leaving them there.
You're arguing why your way is superior. I'm arguing my way is adequate so I don't need anything better, especially when everyone else is fine with it [as far as I know].
And for the record, it's more comical than annoying when people throw the balls around. Those type of players tend to end up frustrating themselves more than anyone else. That's why we get so many "Becky" posts.
I've been playing for 20+ years and have never had a problem, comical or annoying. You and I just have different norms and experiences.