I am a beginner with a semi-western grip, 1HBH. My measured grip size is right inbetween 4 3/8 and 4 1/2, slightly more 4 1/2. When I play with a 4 3/8, my wrist hurts a little, and I do not get the same amount of control. When I use a larger grip size, it is harder to do a top spin, but I get more control, and my wrist doesn't hurt. As a beginner, should I get used to the smaller grip size, despite the slight wrist hurting? I'm still young--21, so I recover pretty quickly.