chris - I hope I am wrong about a troublesome "tone" I read in your OP. (Quoting out-of-order.…)
chrisfromalbany said:
Playing here in the North (Albany, NY) … you are stuck with warming up with your oppoent.
Why is this being “stuck”? It’s how we’ve done it for decades; prior to the match you and your opponent warm-up together. No big deal….
Quite oblivious you aren't going to get a good warm-up …
If you posted this because you think 5 minutes isn’t long enough … well, it’s “warm-up” not “practice” (as already noted).
But if you posted that because you somehow
expect to be poorly warmed-up by your opponent … the occurrence of this – even in Albany – is so rare in my experience as to make it seriously rare. (Yes. I used to play all over the Tri-Cities area.)
(Asking this as gently as I can) do you wonder if your “game face” – or nerves, or a “bad day” – may have “communicated” to your opponent? Maybe you seemed so … intense … you came across as off-putting (or something) and you contributed to the problem…?
I am looking for suggestions to the warm-up when you have a match and you can't get much from the warm-up because your opponent decides to go winner ball on you when you are just trying to get a warm-up in before you match.
Most players who are experienced at playing matches know to arrive warmed-up already. If this (rare) event does actually happen, I like a few of the recommended solutions. (In no particular order….)
• Calmly walk to the net and say, “If you’re just going to practice winners, let’s skip the rest of Warm-up and play.”
• Politely ask him to actually “warm-up”.
• Just warm-up your Serve … no matter what he’s doing. (In fact, I might even walk to the side screen at about the Service Line, turn my back on him and serve into the back screen.) If he asks you what you’re doing, say something like, “You seem to want to warm-up your
winners. Since I don’t need to warm-up saying ‘Nice shot’ I figured I’d let you keep acting like a jerk and I’d just warm-up my own way….”
• Call one of your teammates to warm you up. (But they’d better hurry.) You still get only those five minutes.
It should be noted, if you take the “counter-antagonism” approach, you may as well alert your Captian you’ll probably be needing a Referee once the match begins. (It does pretty much “set the tone” if you choose to “fight fire with fire….”)
P. S. I rarely warm-up my serves into both courts. If my
location is good into one court, it will be good in the other.
- KK