Haven't you heard of the "games-based approach" yet? and that this old-school approach of yours doesn't work and just insures that players NEVER graduate to a net game or all-court game? Where have you been for the last ten years?
The way to learn how to approach the net is to approach the net.
You're discouraging him, saying he can't do it and mustn't try till he can do it perfectly. Baloney. Then his baseline game gets so far ahead of his net game that it's way out of his comfort zone and she he never tries coming to the net. He's afraid to.
Don't do that to people learning the game. Hackers learn faster than people taught like this. That's probably a large part of the reason why nearly half of the adults who take up tennis quit within a year, saying it's just too hard to learn = not worth it.
Whoa...First of all, nothing he said called for you to jump on his case like that.
Secondly, the kid is talking about playing competitive matches, and trying to win.
When you are in competition you don't hit shots that you don't have. And you don't put yourself in a position that shows the softer sides of your game.
Would you reccomend that a beginner who can't hit a topspin second serve try to do so anyway?
Would you reccomend that someone without the ability to smack winners off of short balls try to do so anyway?
That is just absurd.
Bagumbawalla's post was excellent in that he advised that the OP stick to his strengths and mimimize his weakness. He also advised practicing the skills that would allow him to be a complete player and adding them to his game when he felt comfortable with them.
Note, you said perfect, Bagumbawalla said when you feel comfortable.
I believe that you are the one offering poor advice, encouraging someone to do something that they are not comfortable with in a competition match.
Yea, you learn how to approach the net, by approaching the net ON THE PRACTICE COURTS then when you feel comfortable doing it in practice, you implement it into play. At first only on balls that you have a high chance of success on, and then as you get more comfortable and have more success, you can storm on more and more balls.
I dunno about quitting in a year, because I have stuck with it pretty well. But I imagine that losing matches and watching balls whistle by you when you hit lame approaches, and dumping put away volleys into the net just because your coach says you have to attack, would be a lot more discouraging than hitting balls in a rally and having a competitive match.
J