When a girl plays with her hair . . .

Power Player said:
OP is afraid of getting hit by the ball.

Manus. No. girls like men..not boys afraid of "awkward" situations. You guys can keep coming up with soft and easy ways to meet girls, but all you are doing is wasting time while an assertive guy steps in and gets it done. I don't care how nice and sweet a girl is, she will respond well to confidence (not arrogance) and a smile more than all this overthinking and pandering.
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being said, he obviously is afraid. If you force him up to bad when he is afraid to get hit, he will. Let him gain confidence about their relationship-capacity first since he is shy. Maybe not that slowly, but at least hang out first. All my friends that are girls would not want to go out with a guy that randomly asks them out; they'd go out with someone they hang out with and know first.
 
JohnnyCracker said:
humor might not be the best idea when a girl is an airhead. she might not get the joke. the best way to make a girl laugh is to tickle her. it works every time.
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If you are very close it does; not if you are just friends and not if it is obviously against your natural behavior
 
r2473 said:
Where is the hair she is playing with located on her body? This could make a big difference.
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I am sorry but I'm am laughing. But R, she could have shaved. You never know. I meant armpits and leg. What were you guys thinking off? Shameful! :)
 
Thanks for the advice everyone. I truly appreciate it and am not offended by anyone's words. In the end, I'll have to man up, ask her out and find out whether she likes me or not. It won't be easy but nothing good in life is.

Just to clarify, she and I work at a dry cleaning business and that is why we fold clothes (I don't do it for fun). Also, I've never had a serious girlfriend. I've had a few (three or four) flirtations, and I am not a virgin, but I've never brought a girl home to meet my parents. And finally, I am certain she is not subconsciously flirting with me by brushing her hair. Clearly, she is doing it because she is nervous. I was just hoping she may be nervous because she likes me. But I'm probably overanalyzing the situation.

- Adam :)
 
maverick66 said:
I had to laugh at this one. That is so random it hurts.
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Its not random, its rommil's its funny but politically incorrect stereotyping. Koreans and drycleaning. If she was in the taxidriving business rommil would ask if she was Pakistani, or seal clubbing - Canadian.
 
Mav, you should really just write a sticky on how to get girls. They only thing in it should be "man up" haha
 
PCXL-Fan said:
Its not random, its rommil's its funny but politically incorrect stereotyping. Koreans and drycleaning. If she was in the taxidriving business rommil would ask if she was Pakistani, or seal clubbing - Canadian.
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Ok my racism radar must have broke. :)

T1000 said:
Mav, you should really just write a sticky on how to get girls. They only thing in it should be "man up" haha
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What else is there?

Seriously be a man and get in there son.:)
 
OP...not a virgin? O_o

If you're dating a goody-two-shoes, she might not like this (and it won't be okay with the dad, that's for sure).
 
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AM28143 said:
Thanks for the advice everyone. I truly appreciate it and am not offended by anyone's words. In the end, I'll have to man up, ask her out and find out whether she likes me or not. It won't be easy but nothing good in life is.
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I like your style my friend. You are on your way to the promised land..stay strong.
 
AM28143 said:
I'm trying to figure out whether this girl likes me. Whenever I talk to her, or whenever I am near her, she either plays with hair -- pushing it behind her ears and brushing it with her fingers -- or picks at her finger nails...
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Does she pick her butt then wipe her upper lip immediately before fidgeting with her hair? If so, ask her to play tennis with you. She can probably teach you how to rip killer topspin forehands.
 
Ask her to go see "The Adjustment Bureau"
It's a great date movie.

Take her out for lunch/coffee/dinner before the movie and good luck!
 
GetBetterer said:
OP...not a virgin? O_o

If you're dating a goody-two-shoes, she might not like this (and it won't be okay with the dad, that's for sure).
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In my book, it's okay for a girl to want to remain a virgin. In fact, it impresses me when she does; it means she's a serious person and willing to not be one of the many who just go off and gratify whatever whim or pleasure they desire. It makes a girl more formidable, in a way.

The chief problem I used to have dating was always thinking the girl was IT. So this jacks up the nerves. Better to keep in mind that, realistically, there are many women who would make a good wife and mother, not just one. There are a good many fish in the sea. If you blow this one, there are many others out there.

Shoot, ask her out to some low-demanding thing, a cup of coffee, and see if she's up for it. I disagree with the notion of movies as a first date: that can get strange, sitting side by side, but not communicating much; time goes by with little interaction.
 
Tennisisgod said:
Author of this thread,

I am very curious about your intention of posting this here though. Why don't you chat with your closed friends about it in life? Seeking advice from internet for love isn't a wise thing to do unless it's an absolutely hopeless case. The more I read your post, the more I see that you are ready to ask her out even before posting this thread.

Please do not take it in a wrong way. I just felt that guys must learn to be patient to find a right one for marriage to avoid divorce. "Impulsiveness" don't help date a girl, I mean a good girl.


Max,
I disagree with your statement-many fish in a pond. you are teaching younger guys to fish around the word before they settle down with a right one. You are a Catholic right?) Do you know that how painful that is when a beautiful/meaningful relationship ends?

Please do not take it in a wrong way. Just my thoughts about this. Thanks.
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Misinterpretation. I don't mean "play around." You and I agree that's not a productive thing. HERE is what I mean: a young man should appreciate the situation that he is in: there are many women who might be worth courting, there is not just one "soul mate" (which is such a jaded, old idea but which still kicks around because of the romantic fervor the idea can engender).

I said nothing about dating many women at the same time.

If you operate on the belief that there is only one person for you, then the dealing gets pretty desperate, so to speak. It's all or nothing. This jacks up a person's nerves, can make things more intimidating than they really are.

It's better to stay a bit realistic. In my lifetime I've known at least three women who I would say would be marriageable for me. The key thing is realizing that even if the first girl you ask doesn't want to go out, there are others who you may run into who would also be worth your time and effort.

That's about it. Stay grounded.
 
max said:
Misinterpretation. I don't mean "play around." You and I agree that's not a productive thing. HERE is what I mean: a young man should appreciate the situation that he is in: there are many women who might be worth courting, there is not just one "soul mate" (which is such a jaded, old idea but which still kicks around because of the romantic fervor the idea can engender).

I said nothing about dating many women at the same time.

If you operate on the belief that there is only one person for you, then the dealing gets pretty desperate, so to speak. It's all or nothing. This jacks up a person's nerves, can make things more intimidating than they really are.

It's better to stay a bit realistic. In my lifetime I've known at least three women who I would say would be marriageable for me. The key thing is realizing that even if the first girl you ask doesn't want to go out, there are others who you may run into who would also be worth your time and effort.

That's about it. Stay grounded.
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Well, that is different case though:) It is quite different case than author's proposal. By the way, I see your points. I also saw another thread of yours regarding picking up a right one for learning piano lesson.-go to classic one first:)

I also commented on your lent thread before the thread was deleted it. I am not sure if you take a close to look at that. I spent many years of my school life in Catholic schools but I am a christian.
 
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Wait a minute, are you all guys here in the thread? Any girls from Mid Atlantic area care to hit sometimes? Just send me an email and then we can arrange for a hit.

Love to hear from you-female tennis players
 
Note: If this new incarnation comes out and admits they're Tina, apologizes to the Boards (and me), and promises to be a poster that follows the rules and doesn't troll or spread rumors and lies about me, then, yes, I'll consider agreeing to signing off a "deal that will keep the Empire out of here forever" in the words of Lando.
 
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P.S. It's your choice, but the wheels of justice work quickly around here. You don't have long before you're banned, once more. And eventually, they will lock onto your IP address and the ban will be for life.
 
Chopin can you give the uninitiated a little more backstory on your tumultuous history with the creature in question?
 
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