NJLefty
Rookie
Thank you sweet cheeks
move along and when i play you in a match I'm gonna aim for your yawning jaw![]()
You are clearly an *******. Deal with it.
And not for your tennis tactics. You clearly have other A hole tendencies to figure out.
Thank you sweet cheeks
move along and when i play you in a match I'm gonna aim for your yawning jaw![]()
That's not being a jerk. It's being immature and irresponsible since, in the event that she takes your hard shot in the face, at best you'd gain one stupid point in an utterly meaningless GAME while she could end up losing a tooth or even an eye.
It's ridiculous to suggest that amateur/recreational tennis is somehow less worthwhile than the professional game. Or that there's not enough to play for to jusify doing your best to win.
I don't think copping a groundstroke is so dangerous anyway. Besides, what if both the opponents come up to the net and your best shot is to drive between them. You may miss your target and hit the girl. She'll live.
Overhead smashes can be more dangerous.
There's a difference between deliberately trying to drill an opponent at net with a hard shot and simply jamming him or her with a close shot or one at the feet.
Most importantly, the comparison to a board game is EXTREMELY appropriate as far as risk/reward is concerned. No rec player should expect to be deliberately drilled in the face by a hard shot while at net.
We're not playing in order to pay the mortgage and feed our kids. There's no more riding on a rec league tennis match than what's riding on a game of monopoly with the kids: nothing. If you think otherwise then you're suffering from delusions of grandeur. Top ATP and WTA players can't fill stadiums at big events, often even in quarter and semi-final rounds. If you think anyone cares about a 9.5 mixed doubles match you're through the looking glass.
"Top 10 National Ranking"
In what category (eg, D-Bag/Narcissistic ***-hat)?
"Top 10 National Ranking"
In what category (eg, D-Bag/Narcissistic ***-hat)?
#1 in both those categories imo.
Most importantly, the comparison to a board game is EXTREMELY appropriate as far as risk/reward is concerned. No rec player should expect to be deliberately drilled in the face by a hard shot while at net.
If you think anyone cares about a 9.5 mixed doubles match you're through the looking glass.
What about women hitting at men and women. I am male and have played against 2 different women in mixed matches in last couple of years who took every short shot hard at the net person with very little attempt to keep it away from the head. Basically, they just blasted it right at the net person without regard to hitting them in the nose or not. We won both matches but it was testy at times.
What about women hitting at men and women. I am male and have played against 2 different women in mixed matches in last couple of years who took every short shot hard at the net person with very little attempt to keep it away from the head. Basically, they just blasted it right at the net person without regard to hitting them in the nose or not. We won both matches but it was testy at times.
What about women hitting at men and women. I am male and have played against 2 different women in mixed matches in last couple of years who took every short shot hard at the net person with very little attempt to keep it away from the head. Basically, they just blasted it right at the net person without regard to hitting them in the nose or not. We won both matches but it was testy at times.
Unless you want to be laughed at, you really can't say anything to a girl who hit at you. You also look like a jerk if you give her a taste of some payback, but really, are you out there to make friends? She disrespected your manhood and has to pay the price.
What about women hitting at men and women. I am male and have played against 2 different women in mixed matches in last couple of years who took every short shot hard at the net person with very little attempt to keep it away from the head. Basically, they just blasted it right at the net person without regard to hitting them in the nose or not. We won both matches but it was testy at times.
If that happens, Gut4 just whips his junk out and then they cower in fear.
i think i'ma start a thread about this.
Gut4Tennis starts hitting at me, he better be wearing his cup, because his impressive junk is gonna start taking some Wilsons full on at 90 MPH.
do girls hit groundstrokes at 90mph? I doubt it
She plays with Penn tennis balls - she was referring to Wilson tennis shoes!
Gut, you would be proud of me. Although it wasn't intentional, I hit a female opponent in the forehead with a serve during a mixed league match Friday night. I knew it was going to happen eventually when I saw she was going to stand 2 ft from the service line to try and return. It was hard to feel bad because she had plenty of close calls before this and chose not to back up.
Who could possibly return a serve from 2 feet behind the service line?
She plays with Penn tennis balls - she was referring to Wilson tennis shoes!
Gut, you would be proud of me. Although it wasn't intentional, I hit a female opponent in the forehead with a serve during a mixed league match Friday night. I knew it was going to happen eventually when I saw she was going to stand 2 ft from the service line to try and return. It was hard to feel bad because she had plenty of close calls before this and chose not to back up.
I think it was more of a gamesmanship tactic. She has probably had some of the males hold back because of where she stood. She also didn't flinch or budge at all on popups to my forehand. My entire team was in disbelief. We called it kamikaze tennis.
I play a lot of mixed tennis. I normally play with my wife but have to play with other woman at times when the lineup calls for it.
I have found that most woman don't mind the guy coming at them, it when the male trys to hurt them, that makes them have an issue. You can hit at someone so it's at their feet or a step to the left or right with out having to hit the person. When males try to hit the woman in the face or body is when I take issue.
Again, most woman don't mind you hitting the ball at them as long as you are not trying to hit them. I don't know you should ever try to hit someone male or female.
I play a lot of mixed tennis. I normally play with my wife but have to play with other woman at times when the lineup calls for it.
I have found that most woman don't mind the guy coming at them, it when the male trys to hurt them, that makes them have an issue. You can hit at someone so it's at their feet or a step to the left or right with out having to hit the person. When males try to hit the woman in the face or body is when I take issue.
Again, most woman don't mind you hitting the ball at them as long as you are not trying to hit them. I don't know you should ever try to hit someone male or female.
Who could possibly return a serve from 2 feet behind the service line?
I used to do that regularly when I was an Open level player. I don't have those reflexes any more and would likely get hurt now. Can't think it would be a good idea for a lower-level woman to do that.
I used to do that regularly when I was an Open level player. I don't have those reflexes any more and would likely get hurt now. Can't think it would be a good idea for a lower-level woman to do that.
You stood 2 feet behind the service line?
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It works very well. Most club men are lousy servers and get lousier when faced with a challenge like this. Their lack of mechanics results in panic and they double fault.
I would touch the service line with the head of my racket.
I meant I would get hurt if I did it against Open-level players. I still do it sometimes at my current level. Unfortunately, I don't win as many points doing it as I used to since I am not so fast even relative to my current low level of play. Once in a while it will get me a free point, though.
Throw in a weak serve and it becomes even easier to target the net player on returns.I'm gonna try this. I stand right on the baseline and half volley GS's so this must be in a way similar.
Going at the body is a smart play in doubles, same as a serve to the body. When going at the body you sometimes hit the body, and I will never be scared to go at the body just because its a female. Females are tough
I'm guessing you are getting paid then?
I play a lot of ALTA tennis and I've seen the guys who play mixed and are always trying to hit people. Even their own teammates will say they are jerks. Nobody says you can't play smart and hit towards the weaker player but hitting AT someone versus hitting towards someone is totally different.
I think the guys who try to hit at the females should just stick to Men's doubles.
I find most etiquette debates in tennis revolving around aiming a shot at someone to be ridiculous. Social mixed doubles, I get it. Outside of that.....
If you don't want to get hit with the ball, stay away from the net.
If you are a 4.5 woman and don't want some gorilla blasting the ball at you, play with the other ladies.
I play a lot of double (not mixed). Always amazed when someone gets a little chippy when they are crowding the net when their partner is hitting a second serve and they get a return hit right at them. You stand up there, you take your chances. Standing at the net, to me, is an aggressive position. Aggression comes with exposure. You want to play it safe, stand at the baseline.
Especially since a net person gives me a target that I can "see with my shoulder" (so to speak), when I stay with the shot (keeping the eyes on the contact point). That's when I hit most relaxed and with most power, from close to the baseline.
Maybe I'm desensitized from playing other sports. I played Ice Hockey all my life and have dived in front of slap shots and have been hit in places with little or no padding plenty of times. When I was playing baseball and fast pitch, I expected to be thrown at if I was crowding the plate. After getting hit with a frozen puck and a hardball, the fuzzy yellow ball don't seem that bad. I did get hit with an overhead in the groin once and that wasn't fun. I enjoy Tennis a lot (it's my primary recreational sport these days) and it takes a great degree of stamina and mental toughness but physical toughness? Meh... Stand in there kid...
I agree
hey in your signature what does LBs mean?