Hey,
@Polaroid 63, we all accidentally hit reply at one time or another. The way many of us handle it is to simply post an ellipsis, as in a '...'
The short answer to your question (assuming your Aero 98 is on-spec) is that counterbalancing with 8g at 7" isn’t enough to aptly counterbalance the 4g at 12 because your RW will come in around 170 (via 335g, 32.6cm 341sw). Instead, I’d place that 8g under the buttcap to reach 176rw (via 335g, 32.1cm 341sw), which is more than close enough (as a starting point or maybe an end point) to the 182rw my table would recommend for you as a 6'7" player.
The longer answer is, yes, this gives you a lower MgR/I (20.21 vs. 20.37) but then that’s part of the deal with higher weight and swingweight combos. In this territory, what counts more is a higher polarization index (0.526 vs. 0.507) because the more mass, the more efficiently you want it distributed, to the hitting point and under the hand as the arm’s pivot point with the racquet.
Meanwhile, the more mass you’re dealing with, the lower you want your balance point (within reason) because it lowers your racquet's moment of inertia; which is physics for, ‘It makes the racquet more maneuverable in the slot.’ Indeed, a 32.1cm balance is going to swing that 341sw much more lightly through the slot than 32.6cm.
I haven’t really gotten into this in the forum yet, but recoil weight most affects maneuverability in the slot where the velocity of the arm is greater than that of the racquet. Swingweight, on the other hand, mostly affects whip-through into contact, where the velocity of the racquet has become greater than that of the forearm. The higher the SW, the greater that difference. So when you say…
I have to artificially flex the wrist backward a bit to maintain wrist lag at contact.
…it’s the #1 tell that a player isn’t swinging enough swingweight. But if you swing too much SW, it makes for a sluggish slot. The trick, then, is balancing between the two by, yes, using balance: lower balances with high swingweights and vice versa.
Anyway, do let us know how it all turns out...