your picture...

Poor Borg! Sounds epic though to have witnessed that! I bet it was THE PLACE to be, every Borg match those days. At MC as well...Sounds like Fellini vibe for sure! Im going to Rome this year, meeting many from my family there for tennis. Rome also got nice courts and great atmosphere. Whats extra nice about Italian open is that Rome is a fantastic city. My parents named me after a Roman Goddess so I feel a bond to that city.

Novak is practicing at Monte Carlo tennis club. Well, well. Next life I have to live there and play tennis 8-B
I think you and Novak have a lot in common, personality wise ! :D
 
Luckily my girlfriend has very elegant strokes.
Tennis is great cause it is one of the greatest turn-ons in the world. This one girl in college during club tennis practice session, I hit with her for 2 hours. and she was so turned on that she wanted to sleep with me after buying me lunch. so we did.
 

Zara

Hall of Fame
Yes why not ? she already took out her wallet before I could say no. I was thinking to myself, hummm, maybe this is a sign that she likes me.
I don't mind sharing lunch/dinner if I am on a date. But no one is getting laid because of it. I only share because it's the right thing to do and also, I keep control of things just as much as the other guy. Just because someone paid for my dinner doesn't mean he is getting laid. No sir.

Anyways, did you like her back?
 
I don't mind sharing lunch/dinner if I am on a date. But no one is getting laid because of it. I only share because it's the right thing to do and also, I keep control of things just as much as the other guy. Just because someone paid for my dinner doesn't mean he is getting laid. No sir.

Anyways, did you like her back?
Of course, I dont' expect some girl to sleep with me cause I bought her lunch. but this was different, she bought me lunch. Yes, I did like her back, she was a cute California blonde, there wasn't anything not to like. We were together for few months but went our separate ways after that. You know how it is in college. It isn't same as regular grown up dating, it is more like sleep buddy kind of situation. Unless of course you fall in love but then that wasn't exactly fall in love kind of dating.
 

Zara

Hall of Fame
Of course, I dont' expect some girl to sleep with me cause I bought her lunch. but this was different, she bought me lunch. Yes, I did like her back, she was a cute California blonde, there wasn't anything not to like. We were together for few months but went our separate ways after that. You know how it is in college. It isn't same as regular grown up dating, it is more like sleep buddy kind of situation. Unless of course you fall in love but then that wasn't exactly fall in love kind of dating.
Good enough. I approve.
 
I don't mind sharing lunch/dinner if I am on a date. But no one is getting laid because of it. I only share because it's the right thing to do and also, I keep control of things just as much as the other guy. Just because someone paid for my dinner doesn't mean he is getting laid. No sir.

Anyways, did you like her back?
Why would sharing “be the right thing to do:unsure::unsure::unsure::unsure::unsure::unsure: In my background sharing would be wrong thing to do if it meant someone felt stressed or maybe worse, excluded from events :confused::confused::confused:
 

Zara

Hall of Fame
Why would sharing “be the right thing to do:unsure::unsure::unsure::unsure::unsure::unsure: In my background sharing would be wrong thing to do if it meant someone felt stressed or maybe worse, excluded from events :confused::confused::confused:
I have no idea what you are talking about. If someone invites me to dinner (date or otherwise) then I am fine with him paying for my dinner. He invited me after all. But if I am going out with a guy, say dating him for a while, then I prefer to share. But in all honesty, I don't like to go on dates. I prefer going out as friends. And if I feel like continue with it, I will.

In other words, If a guy invites me for dinner as a date, someone I hardly know, it's more than likely I will reject it. And I have. It has nothing to do anyone's background. I have my own sets of things that I go by.
 
I have no idea what you are talking about. If someone invites me to dinner (date or otherwise) then I am fine with him paying for my dinner. He invited me after all. But if I am going out with a guy, say dating him for a while, then I prefer to share. But in all honesty, I don't like to go on dates. I prefer going out as friends. And if I feel like continue with it, I will.

In other words, If a guy invites me for dinner as a date, someone I hardly know, it's more than likely I will reject it. And I have. It has nothing to do anyone's background. I have my own sets of things that I go by.
You wrote “it would be the right thing to do” :oops::oops: so I wondered how that worked :unsure::unsure: from above though it seems situational :p:p:p no wrong or right :giggle:
 

Zara

Hall of Fame
You wrote “it would be the right thing to do” :oops::oops: so I wondered how that worked :unsure::unsure: from above though it seems situational :p:p:p no wrong or right :giggle:
For me it's the right thing to do. I go out with friends where we all chip in. When I was with my last boyfriend, he'd pay most of the time because he insisted on it though I didn't see why I wouldn't pay for my own food when I am perfectly able to pay for it. It kind of undermines my ability. With my other EX where we were both students, we'd always split. And there was another time where my EX was still a student and I was with a job, I paid on most occasions.

When I go out with my sister, I do tend to pay most of the time and don't let her pay. I just feel uncomfortable if someone pays for my food all the time. Or most of the time.
 
For me it's the right thing to do. I go out with friends where we all chip in. When I was with my last boyfriend, he'd pay most of the time because he insisted on it though I didn't see why I wouldn't pay for my own food when I am perfectly able to pay for it. It kind of undermines my ability. With my other EX where we were both students, we'd always split. And there was another time where my EX was still a student and I was with a job, I paid on most occasions.

When I go out with my sister, I do tend to pay most of the time and don't let her pay. I just feel uncomfortable if someone pays for my food all the time. Or most of the time.
You’re saying it’s situational = no hard and fast wrong or right (y)

Some people believe black and white in splits :sneaky: others in one party pays :whistle:others still believe the invitee pays :laughing: others according the gender :unsure: and others to income dynamics :confused:
 
Top