terribleIVAN
Hall of Fame
Honestly, this is something I never understand and don`t like about Federer and his entire crew.
The guy is 38 years old has over 20 Grand Slam wins and still can`t lose in a graceful manner.
Of course competitive spirit is a good thing and you wouldn`t have a career like Federer had without it.
However, at a certain point of time you should learn to appreciate the moment. At age 38 Federer was part of one of the best and most dramatic matches in tennis history.
Yes, in the end you lost but the joy of experiencing that match in that kind of atmosphere should easily outweigh your disapointment over the loss quickly.
Let me give you a comparison to illustarte my point.
The 2001 final between Rafter and Ivanisevic is as legendary as it gets. It was pure electricity. The atmopshere in that last sentence tops everything in my opionion. Go and rewatch it, it still gives me the chills.
The vast majority of the crowd was on Ivanisevic`s side and Goran was insanely emotional. As much as I like Goran, but from an opponents point of view this might have been really really annoying.
Rafter was only 29 years old but already struggling with injuries, so he most likely knew that he would not get many more chances like this. His short career in the top ranks was coming to an end. So no one could have blamed him if he had been very upset and diaspointed after the loss.
However, Rafter`s reaction to the loss was totally different. He immidately realized that he has just been part of something great. Look how he behaved during tat last sentence. Look how he congratulates Ivanisevic after the loss. Look at the smile on his face. Look how he conducted himself after the match. No bitterness, just pure class and sportsmanship.
Yet, on the other hand you have a guy like Federer who despite all his victories ist still behaves like a junior after such a loss. He still looks as if he is about to cry, he still can`t overcome the bitterness, even one year later.
I think "greatness" is not only about winning, it`s also about how you lose and conduct yourself in difficult moments.
That's the best post about the Federer enigma i've ever came across on any tennis forum.
You summed up perfectly why millions of people stopped identifying with him a long time ago already.
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