titoelcolombiano
Legend
Since 2004:
AO - Nad missed the meeting 04, 06, 07, 10, 18; Fed 19; both 05, 08, 11, 13 (probably), 15, 16.
RG - Nad missed 09, Fed missed 10, 12, 13, 14, 17, 18; both 04, 15, 16.
Wim - Nad missed 04, 05, 09, 12, 14, 15, 17; Fed missed 10, 11; both missed 13, 16 (probably), 18.
USO - Nad missed 04-09, 15; Fed missed 10, 11, 13, 17; both missed 12, 14, 16, 18.
Missed meetings:
AO 5-1 Nad
RG 6-1 Fed
Wim 7-2 Nad
USO 7-4 Nad
Ombillible!
Tallying this up + actual h2h, they are right even. Only now the nadal is edging ahead of ancient boneserer on consistency, some achievement.
AO: Fed has gone deeper than Rafa 6 - 5
Rafa was absent in 06 but yes I missed 2004 so we'll say that it is 5 plus the direct loss to Fed in 2017 - 6
Fed lost earlier than Rafa twice; in 2015 and 2019 plus the three direct losses to Rafa - 5
RG: Rafa has gone deeper than Fed 10 - 1
Rafa went deeper in 2010, 2012, 2013, 2014 plus the six (lol) direct wins over Fed
Fed went deeper in 2009... that is all
WIM: Fed went deeper than Rafa 9 - 4 (not great for the grass GOAT)
Rafa went deeper in 2010, 2011, 2018 plus his direct win in 2008 - 4
Fed went deeper in 2004, 2005, 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2017 and the two direct wins over Rafa - 9
USO: Fed went deeper that Rafa 7 - 5
Rafa went deeper in 2010, 2011, 2013, 2017, 2018
Fed went deeper in 2004 - 2009, 2015
It is pretty even as you point out and certainly not as one-sided as is assumed on here. But let's be clear we can't give old man Fed ranked three in the world a pass but happily include an 18 YO Rafa's results.