By meaning matching spec, usually we're referring to static weight and swing weight. If you're completely new about weight customization (normally you don't need to customize the grip for some rackets but other for the same model), just play around with your rackets, pick the one you like the weight (especially the swing weight) the most, take it to a tennis shop (not Big 5 type of department store) to ask the guy there to do the job for you. Usually they won't charge you if it's the store that you do your rackets regularly.
However, you hafta remember what is your goal, that is, to make your rackets with matching spec, or customize your rackets into something new.
Although many people have said that before, I briefly say it again here for your quick reference. Generally extra weight at
1. Throat or even on handle will give you more stability, but the center of mass of the racket may shift too low and thus affect the power, especially when serving;
2. At 3- and 9-o'clock positions of the head will give you more torsional stability (coz the largest distance between the weight, thus largest mass moment of inertia. This's the same thing as Wilson PWS, Yonex IPS and so forth, but manufacturers make it look better by integrating the weight into the racket frame);
3. At 12-o'clock of the head gives you more power (due to the conservation of momentum of the racket head and the ball) but affects the swing weight the most (due to the largest moment arm, the distance between the extra weight to your hand).
In real world, weight custom is not as simply as the above 3 points. Such as placing lead tape at 2- and 10-o'clock position at the head is actually the combination of point 2. and 3. and works somewhere between them.