so how badly did your kid misbehave to get defaulted?
He didnt mis-behave. Director made announcement at 1:50 that matches at would be delayed 30-60 minutes. Boys asked if they had time to leave. She said yes 10 minutes later she called their matches. I went to her and you told her you made announcement that matches would be delayed 30-60 minutes and said the boys had time to leave and come back. She snapped at me and said 10 minute timer or default. Official time keeper called him in at 13 minutes. Boys arrived 3 minutes late. Both had 2:00 matches only one was defaulted (mine)
When boys arrived I quoted 15 minute timer rule according to USTA and the boys were two minutes early. She told me to take it up with the USTA...goodbye. No game penalty, just default.
We've played almost a hundred tournaments and being from out of town we've been on timer before so we do know the rules. The whole problem was we shouldnt have entered this tournament. Won the last tournament there taking out #1 and #3 seed (incl tourny director kid) only to be unseeded again for this one. No big deal though.
Doesnt really matter anymore I was mad and frustrated when this post made. If both boys had been defaulted I still would have been very upset. But when it was selective as this appeared its irritating. But its just typical of the treatment we have received from this same group of people in the past. State level local tournaments ran by local clubs are very clanish. Last tournament from this same organization the (different) director didnt even leave office to give him his trophy didnt thank us for attending and on the way out the kid that lost the finals match smarted off to mine saying "you can go back to Oklahoma now" along with the rude stares from his parents.
Its just a shame that people will shake your hand and be nice as hell to you before a match but when the match is over and their kid has lost its amazing how someone that was so warm and friendly can turn so cold so quickly.
And you guys here can just jump all over this post and tell me what a bad parent I am and pick it all apart because that is what this forum has become also. I just want the rules to be the same for everyone and not to be decided by someone that has her day to be the HBIC.