So, YOU could have been the 8th? And you didn't help out your team?
I shouldnt even have to answer this...
It's not the same team. I already said this had/has nothing to do with me. Not the same team. Not the same players. Did not ruin my chances at anything ect.
Let's just say it was the same team for the sake of argument.
There is no possible way I could have helped. By the time New Dad flaked out the regular season was already well over and done. I did not meet the minimum number of games required to play in a play off. So, I know it sounds easy for you to say, but there is no possible way I could have done anything if I was in this position. Unless of course you mean borrow his ID and pretend to be him. At this point in this thread, im surprised people arnt suggesting this.
But, I guess I can just take the blame in this hypothetical situation for not volunteering to play more and taking into account that people are making commitments they cant honor.
-I can also blame the captain for "simply" not recruiting twice as many players because I have to assume he wanted the exact minimum out of stupidity.
-I can also blame the college students who couldnt suddenly leave school and travel states away to play nationals because some people still go to college these days and pay for it themselves.
-I can also blame the people with more money than others for not simply handing over their credit cards and buying someone else a ticket.
-I was wrong to assume that people take should take rec tennis seriously, I mean, if you're not a 5.5 and under 25, you cant possibly take it seriously.
-I can also blame USTA for not allowing us to go with 7 and making an exception because New Dad has a baby because they should be happy for him.
It's all so clear now. Why couldnt this make sense before?
What's strange is that someone in that position *who professes to be interested in going to nationals* would decline to take advantage of his computer rating by playing for a strong 3.0 team. I mean, going as a 3.0 was surely his best chance to go. Besides, given how hard it is to get the stars to align for you such that you go to nationals, it is weird to throw away an opportunity willy nilly.
Really? I started as a 3.0 "S" in 2011. In 2012 I was a 3.0 "C" and im playing up (so I dont have to self-rate up) so I can move on.
I declined to go because I know ive far surpassed the 3.0 level of tennis and I cannot in good conscience play 3.0 nationals. "Willy nilly"? No.
"Character."
That's the word you're looking for.
Why is NTR self rating as 3.0 with that serve? There are going to be lots of complaints.
There are, but because im a "C" rate they cant actually do anything. I'm not exactly proud of that either.
Right now, im probably one of the best 3.0's on the planet and im not just saying that. Because im so out of level im moving on willingly by playing up. It's the reason why I didnt go to nationals even though im entitled to do so and honestly... I think most people would.
I was a self rate last year. I was a computer rate this year. I improved so fast that NTRP was not going to keep up with me. Ignoring advice from people who obviously want me to stay down, I played up so I could move on.
While most people want to milk a low rating for as long as possible there are some people who want to move on and play up in good conscience.
3.0 is below me. Way below me. I'm not waiting for the computer to catch up. I'm helping the computer do its thing by playing up.
PS: I DO want to go to nationals some day. I'm not going to do it like this. I will see how 3.5 goes and if its clear im well above that level next year ill decline going to nationals if there is a team.
I want to go to nationals to play tennis. I dont want to go to nationals for a level which im clearly well above. I want to be competitive, not overpowered.