^^^Have a sob story behind me getting into tennis. I grew up in a location where tennis facilities were affordable / reserved / restricted to the upper echelons of society. I would walk past the court almost everyday and watch bald, obese, 40-something and 50-something men struggle to keep the ball in the court despite the 10-foot fence on all 4 sides. I have even been asked to pick up balls from the road and return them to court several times. At that time I longed to set foot into the court and feel the clay surface and even hold and feel a racquet.
Never got the chance until the age of 23, having moved to the US, when my then-girlfriend, current-wife dragged me to the court one summer evening out of boredom. A couple of Walmart Wilson racquets and a few used balls scoured out of the woods behind the courts is what I started out with. Two weeks later I came across a 110 sq. in, 3-grip-sizes larger racquet at TJ Maxx's, of all the places. Played with that racquet for a year until someone I met at a pick-up-courts explained to me that racquets come in different head and grip sizes.
In the last 10 years since then, my wife has wished several times that she had not dragged me to the court that fateful evening.
Have a sob story behind me getting into tennis. I grew up in a location where tennis facilities were affordable / reserved / restricted to the upper echelons of society. I would walk past the court almost everyday and watch bald, obese, 40-something and 50-something men struggle to keep the ball in the court despite the 10-foot fence on all 4 sides. I have even been asked to pick up balls from the road and return them to court several times. At that time I longed to set foot into the court and feel the clay surface and even hold and feel a racquet.
Never got the chance until the age of 23, having moved to the US, when my then-girlfriend, current-wife dragged me to the court one summer evening out of boredom. A couple of Walmart Wilson racquets and a few used balls scoured out of the woods behind the courts is what I started out with. Two weeks later I came across a 110 sq. in, 3-grip-sizes larger racquet at TJ Maxx's, of all the places. Played with that racquet for a year until someone I met at a pick-up-courts explained to me that racquets come in different head and grip sizes.
In the last 10 years since then, my wife has wished several times that she had not dragged me to the court that fateful evening.
Mac The Mouth is squarely to blame
My school (in India) had tennis courts and my parents sealed the deal by getting me a wooden racket. Later they got me a Wilson T-2000 and got me to play on grass at a club with some rich friends of theirs who were members. My dad dropped me there everyday to ensure I played. They also made me watch Wimbledon on tv every year with the bribe of hotdogs and mustard.
No ketchup?
Mac The Mouth is squarely to blame
My school (in India) had tennis courts and my parents sealed the deal by getting me a wooden racket. Later they got me a Wilson T-2000 and got me to play on grass at a club with some rich friends of theirs who were members. My dad dropped me there everyday to ensure I played. They also made me watch Wimbledon on tv every year with the bribe of hotdogs and mustard.
I've never seen someone sell hot dogs in india are you from the north?
No ketchup?
Fair Warning: Long story...but one that brought back some very, very good memories.
I've been through four stages of getting hooked. Oddly enough, three of those centered around or were influenced by class or race/gender issues.
As a toddler, my mama and some of her similarly-situated, dirt-poor friends would trek down to the local park's sole tennis court and bat the ball around whilst us kiddies attempted to entertain ourselves. IF one of us would/could successfully find a tree to fertilize (rather than wet ourselves )...they would let us use their ratty wood rackets. Talk about an incentive to become potty-trained. Odd reward system...but it was my first exposure to the game and it certainly was a treat. Still is! But in the 60s, "real" tennis was the purview of the very rich and completely outside my family's world. The fact that my (generally speaking) un-athletic mother bothered is somewhat of a mystery to me...except that it ultimately was a cheap way to pass some time doing something outdoors that exhausted the kids! The rackets were surely second (or third or fourth) hand, the balls scoured from the woods and used many times over, and the public courts...in sad, sad condition.
Then, as a tween, my father and I would sit glued to the TV on Saturdays for whatever "sports" one of the Big Three Networks would favor us with coverage. Fortunately for us, that was another (prior) Golden Era for tennis: Ashe/Borg/Connors/McEnroe and King/Evert/Navratilova. It had everything: class, crass, barbies and butches. S&V, two-handed BHs, woodies and "metal" rackets. White and yellow balls. While I think we're also in another "Golden Era" (at least on the mens side with Fed/Rafa/Djoke/Murray), it simply cannot compete with all that was going on in the 70s. And, as a female native-Richmonder, I cannot even begin to acknowledge the contributions of Ashe competing on the world's greatest courts and the whole Virginia Slims/King v Riggs stuff.
During the summer when I was a rising HS-junior, I got a stray phone call from a woman specifically hired to "start" a tennis program at a traditionally black HS. She'd apparently asked each of the PE teachers who could "hit the ball over the net AND keep it in the court" and my name had been served up. I'd already interviewed for and been offered a small after-school job at a department store in the "cool" local mall. After a very long dinnertime conversation with my parents...during which my father relayed his own personal HS/job/athletics conflict...we all agreed that I should "try out" for the team. What we didn't know was that there weren't any tryouts; anyone who survived the 95F workouts on asphalt (yes, not even concrete) courts...was "in." Our country-club coach ran our a$$es off for a solid week before we even touched a racket or hit a ball. Then we worked on our "toss" for days before ever serving the ball. And the thing she told us before our first match was that we were going to learn how to lose, because we were going to lose a lot.
And we did, lose a lot...but we won way more than people expected us to. We were fit, had reliable serves and were gracious in losing...and winning. To this day, I am still tennis-fit, have a reliable serve (same damn toss!) and hope my opponents consider me gracious regardless of the scoreline. Hooked, hooked, hooked.
Took some time off during college, early career and intense "dating" (that "netted" me my dearest)...but finally picked it back up in my 30s. After age-ing out in some very organized volleyball (more my teammates than me), my intended said....you've gotta find something competitive. Found a small, county-sponsored league (that they, sadly, run no more), I got the bug again. Ten years later...and I haven't looked back. Sometimes, much to the chagrin of said dearest.
Tennis is my fitness regime, therapy session and has provided two of my very best adult-acquired friends. It is a lifetime sport, one I can play with my own very young children and my neighbor's visiting 75+ yr old mother. I find enjoyment of it at so many levels. Sure, some of the USTA and formal league crap can be just that...crap. But the bottomline for me is...it'll be something I can take to my grave. And I hope my family is smart enough...to bury me with a racquet and a fresh can of balls. Not sure if I'll be playing with St. Peter or the Devil but...eh...first ball in, guys, ok?
Nothing, when Chinese parents want you to play tennis, then you play tennis.
Nothing, when Chinese parents want you to play tennis, then you play tennis.
I did grow to love it though. I guess it's not so bad.
Do you play the piano too?
mine got me into a swimming program when I was four. hated it so told them 'no' the second year. been easier to say no to them since then (hence my not becoming a med student)
I think this makes sense. I remember talking to a grad student, who said to me, "**** it, I'm 30 and I'm worrying about a final exam!" Had an impact on me; sad to see all the gray-haired grad students tucked aside in a school building.
Nothing, when Chinese parents want you to play tennis, then you play tennis.
I did grow to love it though. I guess it's not so bad.
I wish my parents told me to play tennis. They insisted I play piano-which I did not grow to love. My parents were anti-sports.
Watched Pete and Goran growing up. Would go out with my buddy Mike and try to blast serves as hard as possible. They would eventually go in. I would blast forehands the same. They also started eventually going in. Backhands never went in so I tried to hit as few as possible.
10 years later someone showed me the grip stuff and all that jazz finally had a lesson. Played a good bit a few years ago. now not so much.
I think this makes sense. I remember talking to a grad student, who said to me, "**** it, I'm 30 and I'm worrying about a final exam!" Had an impact on me; sad to see all the gray-haired grad students tucked aside in a school building.
Want to trade? Don't get me wrong, I love tennis, but like all sports, abilities goes down with age.
Whereas music is eternal. I would give up my athleticism for musical talents.
I had a "Goran phase" too, but no rocket serves though. Just an awkward pose and a lame serve.
Want to trade? Don't get me wrong, I love tennis, but like all sports, abilities goes down with age.
Whereas music is eternal. I would give up my athleticism for musical talents.
I'm curious how you got into tennis, and what really made it go for you as a sport.
In my case, I liked hitting the ball with the racquet. It was a good feel. It was also a challenge to put the ball across the net and into the other court.