This video has a special power, to create conversations that aren't very related to the video, it's magic!
The OP thread and the coach’s video starts with a clickbait title. So what do you expect?
The video also has special skills to make excuses for the coach and ask folks to ignore the coach’s own words which are silly to begin with. Good players don’t lose to bad players. Plus he talks about pushers as bad at some point in the video but then later talks about old school players using a pushing style which folks can emulate.
The core message that he is advocating is really a smooth flowing. stroke. That message is spot on. I wish he had stayed away from his whole definition of skilled players, bad players, or pushers because most of it is wrong, at least to me and many others.
Players who are developing certain skills that might have a higher ceiling lose to players whose skill set though consistent, have a defined ceiling. However, breaking the defined ceiling if talking about rec adults is not a given. To really push (no pun) past that ceiling of someone who is called a pusher requires a lot of reps and sweat equity in matches. Do most rec adults have that in them? The so called pushers are skilled too even if their ceiling seems low. Very few, if any, of the so called pushers at the 4.0 level are just tapping the ball back in. Most have much more control and depth than folks who lose to them want to give them credit for. Yes you can leave them behind once your game matures but there is no magic bullet. You have to do what kids who leave those adults behind at some point do. Fitness, practice, and sweat equity in matches. Lots of it.