Hi Thanks for reading and hopefully you can help.
I've been coaching at my club for a bit now, and have started coaching a really talented 13 year old student. This person used to be coached by a recognised county coach. After leaving that place they are now with me.
The student is really talented, and technically very good, and has improved a lot in various areas. However has a really fragile confidence, and belief in themselves. In practice they can look really good, and when they go to matches , they either can win against poeple much worse, or get battered by people not as gifted who just dont make mistakes.
When they enter better level tournaments, the matches are not lasting too long and getting well beaten. Due to the poor confidence , they describe the matches as going by really fast and not seeming to last at all. To me that seems like nerves and not concentrating or relaxing to get into the match.
The parent expects 100 % and is determined for their child to succeed. Is fair in both praise and criticism, however they are both open and ind front of the child and i don't think its helping.
The student has recently improved a lot, however as of late the form has dipped slightly and the confidence issues are rearing up again, being anxious on court , not wanting people to watch them play etc.
I was wondering if any coaches or people here have had similar experiences, and what i can do to help the student i teach. Everyone who sees them play can see the potential they have , and i often get congratulated over their improvement, but the fact it isnt translating very well to matches concerns me..
Another club has asked the student to play national matches for their team and although this is great news, i am worried about the potential affect it could haved
Any help or advice is greatly appreciated.
I've been coaching at my club for a bit now, and have started coaching a really talented 13 year old student. This person used to be coached by a recognised county coach. After leaving that place they are now with me.
The student is really talented, and technically very good, and has improved a lot in various areas. However has a really fragile confidence, and belief in themselves. In practice they can look really good, and when they go to matches , they either can win against poeple much worse, or get battered by people not as gifted who just dont make mistakes.
When they enter better level tournaments, the matches are not lasting too long and getting well beaten. Due to the poor confidence , they describe the matches as going by really fast and not seeming to last at all. To me that seems like nerves and not concentrating or relaxing to get into the match.
The parent expects 100 % and is determined for their child to succeed. Is fair in both praise and criticism, however they are both open and ind front of the child and i don't think its helping.
The student has recently improved a lot, however as of late the form has dipped slightly and the confidence issues are rearing up again, being anxious on court , not wanting people to watch them play etc.
I was wondering if any coaches or people here have had similar experiences, and what i can do to help the student i teach. Everyone who sees them play can see the potential they have , and i often get congratulated over their improvement, but the fact it isnt translating very well to matches concerns me..
Another club has asked the student to play national matches for their team and although this is great news, i am worried about the potential affect it could haved
Any help or advice is greatly appreciated.