It's good to read others' frustration with the whining and crying. Before bouncing twice, if the ball is returned to the opposing court between the white lines, that is correct tennis. It cannot be less correct. If I cannot return that ball, that is MY PROBLEM!!!! My opponent has done no wrong. He followed the rules. If he hits it weak, high, slow, no spin, bad form, shanked, etc. It doesn't matter. It is MY PROBLEM, not his.
I NEVER disparage ANYBODY's game, even the so called moonballer. The person is moonballing obviously because his adherence to the rules is winning points. Why else would he be doing it? Would he want more points later than now?
I was hitting regularly with a man I once respected, but I simply cannot hit with nor respect him anymore. He has the proclivity of making an excuse for everything and besmirches any shot that I hit. It almost seems to be a chronic psychological disorder. I hit a drop shot, and it's gutless. I can hit a winner hard down the line that goes through the fence, and it was lucky. I run down a shot of his that is nearly a winner and BARELY get it over with desperation, and it's a moonball. He just can't stop. I have literally disassociated with him. Off the court, he is a fine man. But I've always said, there are two things that bring out the real you, beer and tennis.
Really, it has nothing to do with tennis. It has to do with a virtuous or vicious person. Modesty, humility, and appreciation are virtues. Excuses, vanity, and envy are vices.