Hard loss to swallow...

Took a hard L last night in my 2nd ever league match. We played outdoors in very less than ideal conditions- it was incredibly windy all night long and even rained for a bit. Unfortunately the wind impacted the game more than either of us which was unpleasant and incredibly frustrating. I just could not adjust to the wind, probably due to lack of experience playing in conditions like that. When the wind was at my back most of my shots were sailing long, even when I took a significant amount of pace off my shots. Against the wind I could not get into a rhythm on any stroke. I rarely struck the ball cleanly because the wind was so strong. Not taking anything away from my opponent, he clearly adjusted to the conditions better than I did so I give him all the credit. I'm just still frustrated because I knew I could've won the match with a few very minor adjustments. Here's how it played out:

I took the first set 7-5 after being up 5-2 and losing 3 straight games...only to win the next two and close it out. Frustration level: Green (Low)

2nd set: Lost 3-6- as my the wind picked up my level of play dropped all around: even more UEs, 1st serve % dropped, etc. Frustration level: Yellow (Elevated)

3rd set: By the start of the 3rd I was in a mental tailspin. The wind was pushing the ball all over and my anger was beginning to boil over. Before I knew it I was down 2 breaks, 1-4, and the match was slipping away. Somehow I was able to hunker down mentally and I got the 2 breaks back and won 3 games straight to be back on serve. I was slowly regaining confidence. I held to go up 6-5, and was hoping for one more break. However, my opponent had other plans- he played his best game of the match at that point. Every point he had that game was a well-earned winner. We went to tiebreak and I got down again, 2-4, and eventually 2-5. I got back a few mini breaks to make it 5-6, and, on my serve, he was able to hit a forehand winner after a short rally to close out the match. Frustration level: Red (High)

Today I'm still frustrated by the outcome and the conditions we had to play in but my opponent deserved the win. How did you all respond and move on after a tough loss in league play?
 

darthpanda

New User
half of the people that play a tennis match lose, so winning and losing does not matter. you really should read the inner game of tennis by timothy gallwey.
 

Supertegwyn

Hall of Fame
Holy ****, I made a thread a few months ago in which I lost a match almost identically. I was up 5-2 before collapsing, managed to break back and take the first 7-5. Quickly lost the second set 3-6 before losing the third set in a tie break 6-7 (I forget the points)

It was also really windy.
 

Rozroz

G.O.A.T.
you gotta learn 2 things VS wind:

wind from the back, take the ball slightly late.
wind in front, take it slightly early.
 
Holy ****, I made a thread a few months ago in which I lost a match almost identically. I was up 5-2 before collapsing, managed to break back and take the first 7-5. Quickly lost the second set 3-6 before losing the third set in a tie break 6-7 (I forget the points)

It was also really windy.

That's crazy lol. I was so ****ed about the wind. I felt like Djokovic in the USO Final 2012.
 

heninfan99

Talk Tennis Guru
It's normal & good to be ****ed a bit...maybe a few hours and then pour that energy into improving some aspect of your game when you get back on court.
 

thehustler

Semi-Pro
Ahh wind. I enjoy playing in it. When it's at your back you use more spin on your shots to keep it in and get a higher bounce, more pace, etc. When serving with the wind add some spin. This will help kick the ball up higher and it will seem faster to your opponent. When it's against you flatten out your shots and go for them. Odds are you can't miss long. Use smart angles on either side and you'll win easily in the wind.
 

movdqa

Talk Tennis Guru
Watch the Berdych-Murray semi-final at the US Open in 2012 and watch how Murray played. The second semi-final was cancelled that day because of a tornado warning. Even the pros can have a tough time with the wind.
 

Steady Eddy

Legend
half of the people that play a tennis match lose, so winning and losing does not matter. you really should read the inner game of tennis by timothy gallwey.
That's awful. I'd think with the new rackets and improved techniques, that we'd have losing rate down to 40% or so.
 
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