Learning How To Play The Mental Game Faster.

thomas daniels

Semi-Pro
As a cometitive tennis player.

The first thing you need to understand is that... you aren't really playing tennis in your matches, but you are actually playing the mental game.

This is why most players get and stay in tennis slumps during their careers.

They don't know the game they are playing and their coaches aren't teaching them this fact at all!!

So, now that you know what game you are really playing, let me show you how to learn it faster.

And remember that....any competitive tennis player can learn the mental game faster, by learning how to concentrate better during practice.

"The Champion players know that they win their matches in practice."

The key to learning the mental game faster is to focus on 1 thing at a time and never live or relive any tennis matches in your mind too many times, before you play them.

Here is what I mean.

What's 2+2?

See how you didn't even have to think before you answered that question?

This is the mental level you are trying to reach with your mental game.

Most tennis players tend to play in the past or in the future, instead of in the presence moment on the court.

This prevents them from performing at their best during competition.

To learn the mental game faster, be more aware of where your mind is at when you are on court.

Watch your thoughts and observe your reactions during a match, the minute you find yourself thinking about a mistake or error, quickly bring yourself back to the present moment, by breathing deeply and then focus on the next point.

"Your goal is to rewire your brain through constant mental repetitions."

This is where you want to go with your mental game and this is how you can get there and get there fast.

Let Go of All The Negativity You Are Hanging On To Now.

You are carrying around a lot of mental baggage right now and it is preventing you from mentally breaking through.

Remove the mental blocks today, this can be done through deep warrior meditation.

When you are in deep warrior meditation, all your problems and your answers are revealed to you in silence, but your job is to be honest with your self and let them go.

Play in the Ideal.

Tennis players will follow their ideals, so if you are not where you mentally want to be, take a hard look at your ideal and see if it is congruent with the player that you want to become in the near future.

Then if it isn't, create a new one that is and play in that one, until you can do it for real on court.

Those 2 tips can help you learn and then master playing the mental game in months.

Remember this.

You Are Not Playing Tennis, You Are Actually Playing the Mental Game.

We already talked about this one.

Many juniors don't do this and that is why they struggle for their whole careers.

That is why, I focus on helping them to learn how to play the mental game faster, because the quicker they learn how to play it, the faster they will start winning more matches.

Work on your mental game, twice as much as you work on your matchplay game.

This is by far the fastest way to learn it.

Imagine what it would feel like... to be able to play every match at your MENTAL best?

Well, it can be done.

Try out these 3 tips and focus all your energy on them and when you are working on them, never get frustrated when learning the mental game.

Just trust the process that I taught YOU!!

And I can promise you this...

You are going to love the results that you get from doing it.
 

roman_totale

New User
I feel that I learned mental toughness in tennis by playing club cricket. One mistake can mean either walking back to the pavilion, or having the slip cordon or the entire field letting you know how **** they think you are. If you play and miss, you have to forget about the ball just been and focus on the next. As soon as I start thinking about the next point, in tennis, after shanking or making an unforced error I'm already going to start playing better. So easy to forget those simple mantras though!
 

EddieBrock

Hall of Fame
"Paging @Eddie Brock! Special on aisle 7!"

Thomas Daniels has blocked me because I offered constructive criticism but his ideas have merit if you have the patience to wade through his posts.

Similar ideas above to what Litwin talked about.

Yes, these are very good thoughts too! As I've mentioned before my thoughts in a competitive match are very much in the past and the future. I will remember commentators saying "he was up 40-0 and still lost his serve" as well as focusing on "what if" all the time. If I could just be in the moment and actually enjoy playing and get rid of the destructive commentary I would feel like it is a victory.

I'd never heard of "warrior meditation" and don't know what that's about. I wish I could clear the past and future thoughts from my head and focus on the present. My mental state while playing is obviously far from my ideal.
 

S&V-not_dead_yet

Talk Tennis Guru
Yes, these are very good thoughts too! As I've mentioned before my thoughts in a competitive match are very much in the past and the future. I will remember commentators saying "he was up 40-0 and still lost his serve" as well as focusing on "what if" all the time. If I could just be in the moment and actually enjoy playing and get rid of the destructive commentary I would feel like it is a victory.

I'd never heard of "warrior meditation" and don't know what that's about. I wish I could clear the past and future thoughts from my head and focus on the present. My mental state while playing is obviously far from my ideal.

Have you tried meditation? It could do you a world of good [if you can stick with it long enough and not turn it into a competition [ie "I just went 10 seconds without thinking about anything; now let's go for 15 seconds"].
 

S&V-not_dead_yet

Talk Tennis Guru
Never tried meditation. It's just sitting there with a clear mind (not thinking about anything)?

It might be impossible to not think about anything. However, it is possible to let your thoughts come and go without obsessing over trying to suppress them [ie "don't think about anything!"].

Do some research for yourself. As opposed to just telling you to sit in a quiet room and think about nothing, try your hand at various techniques. And do not, I repeat do not, turn it into a competition. That defeats the whole purpose.
 

thomas daniels

Semi-Pro
Yes, these are very good thoughts too! As I've mentioned before my thoughts in a competitive match are very much in the past and the future. I will remember commentators saying "he was up 40-0 and still lost his serve" as well as focusing on "what if" all the time. If I could just be in the moment and actually enjoy playing and get rid of the destructive commentary I would feel like it is a victory.

I'd never heard of "warrior meditation" and don't know what that's about. I wish I could clear the past and future thoughts from my head and focus on the present. My mental state while playing is obviously far from my ideal.
You can, learn Mushin Tennis
 

mindmaster

New User
Good post! When I as a kid was very nervous in matches, I started to think about if I could somehow control my mind in tight situations. I had very good concentration in practices and often found that flow state or being in a zone. I first learned to find that state in tight moments, learned to think that I'm in practice so I have nothing to lose and started to take those moments just as a challenge and found confidence to perform at my peak level in tight moments. Then I started to think that I should learn to allways be in that state whole match. After some time I learned to be in that state almost every point, but my weakness was for years that I got super angry in some matches and it took time to totally accept each situation and conditions. It comes with experience if you just think about those mental aspects and how to deal with your mental weaknesses. My competition journey has been a long learning process becoming from nervous kid to an overachiever first in badminton where I became almost professional. Then shifted to tennis and some other sports too I have constantly learned different tricks to control my mind to work at its best level. I allways have loved challenges and I don't know did I learn it or have I always been like that but I mean I have allways been very skeptical about my opponents when facing much better players. Most don't believe that they have any chance in moments where I have always believed that I can beat my opponent even if he is much better than me and that has been one of the keys why I have allways been able to do more super upsets than most players. For example once we played doubles in badminton tournament and we were playing in one class higher than we were also and we already made surprise by winning our first match in 3 sets in that class against one of the weakest pairs of that class and next match was against n.1 ranked pair who had not lost any match whole year and they were raising to highest class like they had previously been for years. We lost first set 21-4 and my partner was looking to be in a bit of shame and was praising how good they are. I thought that so what if the set went 21-4 now could be a chance to get into match as they look overconfident. I had learned to be in that flow state but I needed to get my partner in that same state so we could have a chance. every point from there on point by point I tried to courage him to just win this following point and not thinking about anything else but this point only. We started to suddenly get a lead and my partner was a bit surprised but now he was understanding that they are not so superior as he thought and started to slowly believe more on himself. We won that super tight match eventually and especially for my partner it was probably his most memorable upset he has done. I have because of that skepticism been able to overcome many almost impossible situations in my sport career. I just shared that moment because I didn't really know how to explain that thing without giving an example of some moment from my career. Remember that your opponent is always just a human.
 
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