suggestions?
Stuck said:
that is the mental part of the game my friend
I have a similar problem to the OP, but probably far worse.
I took up tennis in my early twenties (now early thirties), always playing with friends and usually in very non-competitive circumstances. I've finally reached a point of feeling comfortable with my serve, and therefore feel like I have a decent arsenal (FH, 1HBH, volleys, 1st/2nd serve.) Unfortunately, as with before, I keep losing. I have maybe only played about 50-75 matches in my life, and with the exception of one tournament, the rest were all recreational. I don't think I've won more than a handful of those matches--no exaggeration.
In the past, the losing was understandable, as I had a terrible serve and always played against stronger players, but now, even when I play
much weaker players, I'm losing--really badly. Lost against my hack-playing friend with nothing other than a forehand last week, and that was the last straw. Every game got to deuce, but then I'd lose it (he definitely DIDN'T win it.)
I played against a good player yesterday, and still got the same results, though it
felt more competitive: I was tougher and not making horribly bad errors. I seem to play better in tougher situations. But I still lose.
I've joined the USTA and am looking to start to play competitively. But before that, I would also like to know if anyone has suggestions on a good book/online source to read about the mental game. Right now, I think that I've become
far too comfortable with losing, and I need some serious help. But I'm looking for more than the standard suggestions: I have all the same thoughts as expressed above, but when I begin to think about things like that during play, I think it only confuses me and encourages my inner doubt.
Anyone with a good suggestion for some reading on the mental game?
max