Why don't players get how to warmup/rally?

zaph

Professional
This is one of my pet hates and came up again today. Agreed to hit a few practice rallies with someone who couldn't serve due to injury. So I feed the ball down the middle, what I get in return is balls nailed into the corner, drop shots, winners hit flat onto the baseline, lobs when I come in to get dropshots and awkward balls with funky spins on them.

In some ways this is good practice, running around madly retrieving all this stuff. Eventually I lose patience and wack one of his balls passed him into the corner. At which point he complains that it was just practice and there is no way he could reach this. Really, with all the mad shots I have had to dig out?

He isn't the only person who does this. Our club is full of people who try to win warmups and practice hits. Which is a complete waste of time. So here is the tip. Warmups and practice hits are not about winning points, there are no points.

They are about warming up and practicing shots. If nobody wants to practice/warmup with you, you might well be the guy I described above.
 

mad dog1

G.O.A.T.
This is one of my pet hates and came up again today. Agreed to hit a few practice rallies with someone who couldn't serve due to injury. So I feed the ball down the middle, what I get in return is balls nailed into the corner, drop shots, winners hit flat onto the baseline, lobs when I come in to get dropshots and awkward balls with funky spins on them.

In some ways this is good practice, running around madly retrieving all this stuff. Eventually I lose patience and wack one of his balls passed him into the corner. At which point he complains that it was just practice and there is no way he could reach this. Really, with all the mad shots I have had to dig out?

He isn't the only person who does this. Our club is full of people who try to win warmups and practice hits. Which is a complete waste of time. So here is the tip. Warmups and practice hits are not about winning points, there are no points.

They are about warming up and practicing shots. If nobody wants to practice/warmup with you, you might well be the guy I described above.
Maybe it’s not intentional. Have you considered that maybe you hit the ball with so much spin and pace that the guys you are hitting with can’t handle it and therefore are spraying?
 

Ronaldo

Bionic Poster
Maybe it’s not intentional. Have you considered that maybe you hit the ball with so much spin and pace that the guys you are hitting with can’t handle it and therefore are spraying?
Then he wins the warm-up! Used to practice/hit with a guy that wanted to start with 25 forehands in a row, then 25 backhands in a row. He stopped calling after a few weeks. Too demanding.
 
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styksnstryngs

Professional
Maybe it’s not intentional. Have you considered that maybe you hit the ball with so much spin and pace that the guys you are hitting with can’t handle it and therefore are spraying?
Or maybe the other way around, maybe op is just really out of shape and the balls his opponent is giving him feel like normal shots for the opponent but to OP, they feel like winners impossible to reach.
 

jacob22

Professional
There's a big difference between warm-up and practice. In a warm-up, you're getting your strokes and timing ready for the match. In practice, I want to be able to practice shots that I need to hit well in a match, that includes attempted winners. That's not to say I tried to hit a winner off the feed but after a 5-6 balls back and forth, everything is fair game. What's the point of practice if you're only hitting easy balls right back to your opponent? Yes, you practice the stroke, but what about placement and strategy?
 

mad dog1

G.O.A.T.
There's a big difference between warm-up and practice. In a warm-up, you're getting your strokes and timing ready for the match. In practice, I want to be able to practice shots that I need to hit well in a match, that includes attempted winners. That's not to say I tried to hit a winner off the feed but after a 5-6 balls back and forth, everything is fair game. What's the point of practice if you're only hitting easy balls right back to your opponent? Yes, you practice the stroke, but what about placement and strategy?
Post title said warmup rallies, not practice rallies.
 

FiReFTW

Legend
I warm up by hitting balls to opponent, warming up my fh....my bh...my slice bh... and I hit to him and try to hit to his fh and also to his bh, starting with slow pace and then increasing the pace every few minutes, then after some time when we are both warmed up properly and the pace is high, I might start hitting some winners or trying some dropshots and stuff and so will my opponent.
But not all the time we are still hitting to each other but here and there we both try to hit such shots.
Then some point play practice.
 

Dartagnan64

G.O.A.T.
My pet peeve with guy that just want to warm-up/practice is that they seem to want to just hit down the middle. I go stand in a corner because if I'm going to warm up, I want to warm up my CC shots and they look at me like I'm from Mars when I hit their rally ball CC.
 

Ronaldo

Bionic Poster
My pet peeve with guy that just want to warm-up/practice is that they seem to want to just hit down the middle. I go stand in a corner because if I'm going to warm up, I want to warm up my CC shots and they look at me like I'm from Mars when I hit their rally ball CC.

Practiced crosscourt S&V as in doubles when we did not have a match and less than an hour available on an indoor court. Walk-ons ain't easy
 

S&V-not_dead_yet

Talk Tennis Guru
My pet peeve with guy that just want to warm-up/practice is that they seem to want to just hit down the middle. I go stand in a corner because if I'm going to warm up, I want to warm up my CC shots and they look at me like I'm from Mars when I hit their rally ball CC.

*CCers are from Mars, DTLers are from Venus*?
 

Curiosity

Professional
There's a big difference between warm-up and practice. In a warm-up, you're getting your strokes and timing ready for the match. In practice, I want to be able to practice shots that I need to hit well in a match, that includes attempted winners. That's not to say I tried to hit a winner off the feed but after a 5-6 balls back and forth, everything is fair game. What's the point of practice if you're only hitting easy balls right back to your opponent? Yes, you practice the stroke, but what about placement and strategy?


Perhaps five years ago I complained to our then-head-pro that joining in with the current doubles guys for a practice was ridiculous, because they didn't hold a sufficient warm-up, so playing was tedious. His reply? "They don't have anything to warm up." -which actually probably was the right answer. (I only played singles back then, and was asked to fill in for doubles at times.... These days I'm much more amenable to doubles, especially on vacation, and I set up warm-up before doubles, not relying on a group's habits. This is extremely helpful.)
 
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zalive

Hall of Fame
This is one of my pet hates and came up again today. Agreed to hit a few practice rallies with someone who couldn't serve due to injury. So I feed the ball down the middle, what I get in return is balls nailed into the corner, drop shots, winners hit flat onto the baseline, lobs when I come in to get dropshots and awkward balls with funky spins on them.

In some ways this is good practice, running around madly retrieving all this stuff. Eventually I lose patience and wack one of his balls passed him into the corner. At which point he complains that it was just practice and there is no way he could reach this. Really, with all the mad shots I have had to dig out?

He isn't the only person who does this. Our club is full of people who try to win warmups and practice hits. Which is a complete waste of time. So here is the tip. Warmups and practice hits are not about winning points, there are no points.

They are about warming up and practicing shots. If nobody wants to practice/warmup with you, you might well be the guy I described above.

There are silly people/players. What's new? Folks that are ok don't do this, unless it's agreed or accepted as fine, with or without words.
For some reason your club is full of silly folks.
 

zaph

Professional
In warmups you shouldn't be trying to win them. Even in practice the idea is not to try and destroy somebodies feed down the middle for a winner into the corner or dropshot them straight away. Personally I prefer to do drills, say cross court hit, short court rallies that kind of thing. There is nothing wrong with going for more, but wait till 5 or 6 balls in before going for it. Don't whack it, it ain't much use for your practice partner to spend their life scrambling to reach your winners, you have just hit off the feed.
 
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most idiots think that practice is a time to "practice" winners.

most good players know that practice is about grooving strokes, cooperative hitting to maxmize # of balls hit per hour,... if you can't maintain a long rally, you likely can't hit winners either.
the same people that "practice hitting winners" really shank a ball accidently, and say they meant it...
some folks on here have claimed to be able to hit lines intentionally (i challenged them to drop feed from baseline and do that - no takers)

when i come across one shot wonders, if i'm up for a conditioning session, i'll oblige and chase down shanks, wide balls, long balls, etc...
else once they hit 3 "winners" in a row from feeds down the middle, i'll just challenge them to a set (ie. if you're gonna make me run, give me a chance to make you run too)

there's caveats to my "rule" but that's the gist.

side notes:
* some people get initimidated/annoyed if you hit too hard to them... similarly they get annoyed if you hit heavy and deep (eg. illiciting "the matador")
 

ChaelAZ

G.O.A.T.
most idiots think that practice is a time to "practice" winners.

One of my regular hitting partners just doesn't have it in him not to try to hit winners. I mean, we might have a few minutes of good rally mini tennis to start, with good loops and a slow pace, but he starts hitting lower topspin shots with pace pretty quick. He chronically seems to need to prove he can hit hard. And not with any placement either. Many of his "winners" are simply bailout shots from the rally when he doesn't get in position and just hits it. So I use him for more movement practice for myself, knowing most rallies will only be 4 to 10 shots max.

It's the same guy who in Feburary, we had Dolehide and another player practicing on the next court over for the pro circuit and as we finish and walk by he says to them, "Hey, if you need some good pace to hit with let us know". I immediately started laughing, as did the girls, and I add "that's him, not me". We all kinda chuckled, but as we walked away I was all, "Do you SERIOUSLY think you can hit with them?" His response was, "Well, I don't mean in a match, but I could rally with them." I used my kinda words to mention that our longest rally was 12 balls in the last 2 hours of hitting and there were plenty of onezie, twozie hits, and that "we" would embarrass ourselves with that. He went off on that "we" would hit more serious with them and I am just underestimating my game...yadda...yadda...

Seriously...people kinda get wrapped up in their own mental image of their game instead of the reality of their games. So winning practice...just another way to keep that ego up.

'Tis why I really love video. You get to slap them with reality. :D
 
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One of my regular hitting partners just doesn't have it in him not to try to hit winners. I mean, we might have a few minutes of good rally mini tennis to start, with good loops and a slow pace, but he starts hitting lower topspin shots with pace pretty quick. He chronically seems to need to prove he can hit hard. And not with any placement either. Many of his "winners" are simply bailout shots from the rally when he doesn't get in position and just hits it. So I use him for more movement practice for myself, knowing most rallies will only be 4 to 10 shots max.

It's the same guy who in Feburary, we had Dolehide and another player practicing on the next court over for the pro circuit and as we finish and walk by he says to them, "Hey, if you need some good pace to hit with let us know". I immediately started laughing, as did the girls, and I add "that's him, not me". We all kinda chuckled, but as we walked away I was all, "Do you SERIOUSLY think you can hit with them?" His response was, "Well, I don't mean in a match, but I could rally with them." I used my kinda words to mention that our longest rally was 12 balls in the last 2 hours of hitting and there were plenty of onezie, twozie hits, and that "we" would embarrass ourselves with that. He went off on that "we" would hit more serious with them and I am just underestimating my game...yadda...yadda...

Seriously...people kinda get wrapped up in their own mental image of their game instead of the reality of their games. So winning practice...just another way to keep that ego up.

'Tis why I really love video. You get to slap them with reality. :D
lol
 

ptuanminh

Hall of Fame
I am just gonna go full force and hit winner on their feeds. The ****teeey thing is, a lot of people feed balls to corners, or with a kind of weird spins. That, i don't know how to deal with.
 

r2473

G.O.A.T.
This is one of my pet hates and came up again today. Agreed to hit a few practice rallies with someone who couldn't serve due to injury. So I feed the ball down the middle, what I get in return is balls nailed into the corner, drop shots, winners hit flat onto the baseline, lobs when I come in to get dropshots and awkward balls with funky spins on them.

In some ways this is good practice, running around madly retrieving all this stuff. Eventually I lose patience and wack one of his balls passed him into the corner. At which point he complains that it was just practice and there is no way he could reach this. Really, with all the mad shots I have had to dig out?

He isn't the only person who does this. Our club is full of people who try to win warmups and practice hits. Which is a complete waste of time. So here is the tip. Warmups and practice hits are not about winning points, there are no points.

They are about warming up and practicing shots. If nobody wants to practice/warmup with you, you might well be the guy I described above.
So you lost warmups and now you're complaing.

Better player won. Learn to accept it.
 

sureshs

Bionic Poster
Trick is to applaud loudly and then SLOWLY go and fetch the ball. They will soon feel bad (and also good at the same time) and will stop doing that.
 

EddieBrock

Hall of Fame
This is one of my pet hates and came up again today. Agreed to hit a few practice rallies with someone who couldn't serve due to injury. So I feed the ball down the middle, what I get in return is balls nailed into the corner, drop shots, winners hit flat onto the baseline, lobs when I come in to get dropshots and awkward balls with funky spins on them.

In some ways this is good practice, running around madly retrieving all this stuff. Eventually I lose patience and wack one of his balls passed him into the corner. At which point he complains that it was just practice and there is no way he could reach this. Really, with all the mad shots I have had to dig out?

He isn't the only person who does this. Our club is full of people who try to win warmups and practice hits. Which is a complete waste of time. So here is the tip. Warmups and practice hits are not about winning points, there are no points.

They are about warming up and practicing shots. If nobody wants to practice/warmup with you, you might well be the guy I described above.

That annoys me a lot too! I went to a clinic and warmed up with someone who was just crushing the ball right out of the gate. I had been sitting most of the day and was afraid of injury hitting with him. This happens way too often. I wish people realized the point of the warm up is to warm up.
 

r2473

G.O.A.T.
That annoys me a lot too! I went to a clinic and warmed up with someone who was just crushing the ball right out of the gate.
Is it not acceptable to hit hard in warmups? If not, what speed is acceptable? Can balls ever be too slow?

Is it OK to hit with spin? Is too much spin inappropriate? How much spin is acceptable?

Are slices OK?
 
most idiots think that practice is a time to "practice" winners.

most good players know that practice is about grooving strokes, cooperative hitting to maxmize # of balls hit per hour,... if you can't maintain a long rally, you likely can't hit winners either.
the same people that "practice hitting winners" really shank a ball accidently, and say they meant it...
some folks on here have claimed to be able to hit lines intentionally (i challenged them to drop feed from baseline and do that - no takers)

when i come across one shot wonders, if i'm up for a conditioning session, i'll oblige and chase down shanks, wide balls, long balls, etc...
else once they hit 3 "winners" in a row from feeds down the middle, i'll just challenge them to a set (ie. if you're gonna make me run, give me a chance to make you run too)

there's caveats to my "rule" but that's the gist.

side notes:
* some people get initimidated/annoyed if you hit too hard to them... similarly they get annoyed if you hit heavy and deep (eg. illiciting "the matador")

This, and all of that.

Idiots like that LOVE to go for and hit winners in rally/practice drills because they know there's no consequences to missing, as in they won't lose a point. So to them, what's wrong with going for those insane angle, inside-in down the line shots, and absolutely wailing on the ball. ALL of which results in the end of the rally and subsequent retrieval of the ball. It's quite obvious if someone goes for winners off of a feed.

Here's what I do when I encounter someone like that, and trust me, there are a lot of them among the rec players:
1) Don't hit with them ever again
2) Ask them to play a set/match, and they'll quit that sh*t real quick.

Any good player who's gone through proper coaching and played from a young age will understand the importance of cooperative practice. Youtube-inspired or TT-inspired players, not so much. You can pretty tell who they are, they usually have glue underneath their shoes.
 

LaZeR

Professional
This is one of my pet hates and came up again today. Agreed to hit a few practice rallies with someone who couldn't serve due to injury. So I feed the ball down the middle, what I get in return is balls nailed into the corner, drop shots, winners hit flat onto the baseline, lobs when I come in to get dropshots and awkward balls with funky spins on them.

In some ways this is good practice, running around madly retrieving all this stuff. Eventually I lose patience and wack one of his balls passed him into the corner. At which point he complains that it was just practice and there is no way he could reach this. Really, with all the mad shots I have had to dig out?

He isn't the only person who does this. Our club is full of people who try to win warmups and practice hits. Which is a complete waste of time. So here is the tip. Warmups and practice hits are not about winning points, there are no points.

They are about warming up and practicing shots. If nobody wants to practice/warmup with you, you might well be the guy I described above.
Fully Agree 100% ~ hate this crap!! Often have to suggest "hit it straight for now during warm up", or "don't slam it", etc, etc.

On another note I also hate the custom of warming up standing in the service boxes, softly tapping the ball. "You wanna practice volleys"? "Nahhh just hit the ball soft". Balls fly all over the place. "JUST GET BACK FFS"!!
 
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This, and all of that.

Idiots like that LOVE to go for and hit winners in rally/practice drills because they know there's no consequences to missing, as in they won't lose a point. So to them, what's wrong with going for those insane angle, inside-in down the line shots, and absolutely wailing on the ball. ALL of which results in the end of the rally and subsequent retrieval of the ball. It's quite obvious if someone goes for winners off of a feed.

Here's what I do when I encounter someone like that, and trust me, there are a lot of them among the rec players:
1) Don't hit with them ever again
2) Ask them to play a set/match, and they'll quit that sh*t real quick.

Any good player who's gone through proper coaching and played from a young age will understand the importance of cooperative practice. Youtube-inspired or TT-inspired players, not so much. You can pretty tell who they are, they usually have glue underneath their shoes.
the funniest example of this i had, was a decade or so ago, this older guy that saw me serving... (probably the age i am now - but back then he was "old")
so he asked if i wanted to hit...
10m into the rally he starts spraying... at first i wasn't sure if he just couldn't control the shots, or if he was trying to hit winners.
so i merrily chased down shanks outside the dubs alley, and hit swinging volleys from behind the baseline...
then after another 15m of that, i realized every time i coughed up a short ball, he'd put it away.
i challenged him to a set... which he *eagerly* accepted (his buddies were really cheering him on everytime he 'won' a point in the rally)..
i played a dropshot/lob game jerking him back and forth... underhand serve, chip drop shot return, etc... i think he hit himself trying to return my kicker.
at 5-0, he "had to go".
 

heninfan99

Talk Tennis Guru
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One of my regular hitting partners just doesn't have it in him not to try to hit winners. I mean, we might have a few minutes of good rally mini tennis to start, with good loops and a slow pace, but he starts hitting lower topspin shots with pace pretty quick. He chronically seems to need to prove he can hit hard. And not with any placement either. Many of his "winners" are simply bailout shots from the rally when he doesn't get in position and just hits it. So I use him for more movement practice for myself, knowing most rallies will only be 4 to 10 shots max.

It's the same guy who in Feburary, we had Dolehide and another player practicing on the next court over for the pro circuit and as we finish and walk by he says to them, "Hey, if you need some good pace to hit with let us know". I immediately started laughing, as did the girls, and I add "that's him, not me". We all kinda chuckled, but as we walked away I was all, "Do you SERIOUSLY think you can hit with them?" His response was, "Well, I don't mean in a match, but I could rally with them." I used my kinda words to mention that our longest rally was 12 balls in the last 2 hours of hitting and there were plenty of onezie, twozie hits, and that "we" would embarrass ourselves with that. He went off on that "we" would hit more serious with them and I am just underestimating my game...yadda...yadda...

Seriously...people kinda get wrapped up in their own mental image of their game instead of the reality of their games. So winning practice...just another way to keep that ego up.

'Tis why I really love video. You get to slap them with reality. :D
https://tt.tennis-warehouse.com/index.php?threads/i-dont-need-to-hit-accurately.614704/
 

EddieBrock

Hall of Fame
Is it not acceptable to hit hard in warmups? If not, what speed is acceptable? Can balls ever be too slow?

Is it OK to hit with spin? Is too much spin inappropriate? How much spin is acceptable?

Are slices OK?

Yes, of course it's acceptable to hit hard in warmups, but not until you've hit a few balls so your body has a chance to loosen up a bit. A lot of people like to start with mini tennis and I'm starting to think part of the reason is to avoid having people crushing the first few balls. You should try to hit medium pace balls to each other and hit both forehands and backhands. Look at the pros warming up. That's what your trying to do, not crushing balls into the corners or hitting drop shots. Balls can be too slow if you start out just boonballing.

There's no issue with spin as long as you're warming up different shots.
 

r2473

G.O.A.T.
Yes, of course it's acceptable to hit hard in warmups, but not until you've hit a few balls so your body has a chance to loosen up a bit. A lot of people like to start with mini tennis and I'm starting to think part of the reason is to avoid having people crushing the first few balls. You should try to hit medium pace balls to each other and hit both forehands and backhands. Look at the pros warming up. That's what your trying to do, not crushing balls into the corners or hitting drop shots. Balls can be too slow if you start out just boonballing.

There's no issue with spin as long as you're warming up different shots.
What I find most interesting is our relationship with "standards" in general.

From what I can tell, those that expect others to adhere to "standards" are too rigid. Too full of themselves. Think there is only one right way to do things. Can't see things from others point of view. This view works out fine, until I get annoyed with the way somebody else does something. Then I want to have recourse to standards so I can tell them they are wrong.

So from what I can see, as long as everyone does things just the way I want them done, everything will be just fine. And they also need to bear in mind that the way I want things done can and will change (because I'm not rigidly bound to any standards).

Now, anyone who can't live up to my standards (which aren't standards, because standards are too rigid), I'm going to be annoyed with.

Sheesh, is this too unreasonable for you people? Or are you just too stupid to understand?
 
the funniest example of this i had, was a decade or so ago, this older guy that saw me serving... (probably the age i am now - but back then he was "old")
so he asked if i wanted to hit...
10m into the rally he starts spraying... at first i wasn't sure if he just couldn't control the shots, or if he was trying to hit winners.
so i merrily chased down shanks outside the dubs alley, and hit swinging volleys from behind the baseline...
then after another 15m of that, i realized every time i coughed up a short ball, he'd put it away.
i challenged him to a set... which he *eagerly* accepted (his buddies were really cheering him on everytime he 'won' a point in the rally)..
i played a dropshot/lob game jerking him back and forth... underhand serve, chip drop shot return, etc... i think he hit himself trying to return my kicker.
at 5-0, he "had to go".

OMG, don't get me starting on shanks and practice. First of all, let me make this clear... If you shank or mishit a ball, I would have no problem with it. We all do it, no need to make a big deal out of it. But you know how most shanks/mishits would send the ball flying OFF the court? So, my partner would shank a ball, and it starts steering itself towards the doubles alley. So I'd sprint and retrieve it back, even though it was an out ball, because:

1) It's good stamina/speed/explosiveness practice
2) I don't want the errand ball interrupt nearby courts
3) I don't want to have to walk further to pick it up if I didn't stop it.

And you know how if you were retrieving a ball from the doubles alleys or beyond, you're way off the court? So I'd hit it back, and you're super compromised at that point so there's not much on that ball, plus you're off the court. And what do these idiots do? "Oh look! An easy floaty ball! Let me go for a winner even though you had to go and retrieve my shank"

--.-- Yeah, we're done here.
 

r2473

G.O.A.T.
OMG, don't get me starting on shanks and practice. First of all, let me make this clear... If you shank or mishit a ball, I would have no problem with it. We all do it, no need to make a big deal out of it. But you know how most shanks/mishits would send the ball flying OFF the court? So, my partner would shank a ball, and it starts steering itself towards the doubles alley. So I'd sprint and retrieve it back, even though it was an out ball, because:

1) It's good stamina/speed/explosiveness practice
2) I don't want the errand ball interrupt nearby courts
3) I don't want to have to walk further to pick it up if I didn't stop it.

And you know how if you were retrieving a ball from the doubles alleys or beyond, you're way off the court? So I'd hit it back, and you're super compromised at that point so there's not much on that ball, plus you're off the court. And what do these idiots do? "Oh look! An easy floaty ball! Let me go for a winner even though you had to go and retrieve my shank"

--.-- Yeah, we're done here.
Here's a novel idea. You could simply speak to them. Explain to them what your expectations are. They might in turn speak to you. You could come to a mutual understanding on how to cooperate. You might even enjoy hitting with them.

Is that too old fashioned?
 
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Yes, of course it's acceptable to hit hard in warmups, but not until you've hit a few balls so your body has a chance to loosen up a bit. A lot of people like to start with mini tennis and I'm starting to think part of the reason is to avoid having people crushing the first few balls. You should try to hit medium pace balls to each other and hit both forehands and backhands. Look at the pros warming up. That's what your trying to do, not crushing balls into the corners or hitting drop shots. Balls can be too slow if you start out just boonballing.

There's no issue with spin as long as you're warming up different shots.
oh you think mini prevents people from crushing the ball... lol
 

Traffic

Hall of Fame
This is one of my pet hates and came up again today. Agreed to hit a few practice rallies with someone who couldn't serve due to injury. So I feed the ball down the middle, what I get in return is balls nailed into the corner, drop shots, winners hit flat onto the baseline, lobs when I come in to get dropshots and awkward balls with funky spins on them.

In some ways this is good practice, running around madly retrieving all this stuff. Eventually I lose patience and wack one of his balls passed him into the corner. At which point he complains that it was just practice and there is no way he could reach this. Really, with all the mad shots I have had to dig out?

He isn't the only person who does this. Our club is full of people who try to win warmups and practice hits. Which is a complete waste of time. So here is the tip. Warmups and practice hits are not about winning points, there are no points.

They are about warming up and practicing shots. If nobody wants to practice/warmup with you, you might well be the guy I described above.
Not sure if you are referring to warming up or just rallying.
I know that when I warm up with some folks, there are a lot of mishit balls.

But if we are rallying, I would probably just let those balls go unless we were practicing playing out the point. If these are the first few shots and they were hit intentionally, I would just clap my racquet and say, "too good...are we playing points now?"

My son and I will rally and at times, if he leaves a floater, I'll put it away. He will then ask me if we are playing points so that he can crush the ball back.
 
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Here's a novel idea. You could simply speak to them. Explain to them what your expectations are. They might in turn speak to you. You could come to a mutual understanding on how to cooperate. You might even enjoy hitting with them.

Is that too old fashioned?
oh, i do say something... but usually it's along the lines of, "hey what's the score over there.., because you seem to keep wanting to hit winners when i'm feeding balls down the middle" (then they cite the few that i shanked, as me going for a winner).
the same people are also "matadors" to show me my ball was out (when they could have easily stopped it or hit it back... instead the cost of "winning the point" is needing to fetch the ball)
eventually i get to, "how about we just play a set"... every time the answer is "yeah" because that's what they wanted to do in the first place.

bottom line,... with better players, you never have to ask,... it's understood. so best to just avoid the practice-king, unless you're just gonna play sets (or groundstroke games, or whatever)
 

r2473

G.O.A.T.
oh, i do say something... but usually it's along the lines of, "hey what's the score over there.., because you seem to keep wanting to hit winners when i'm feeding balls down the middle" (then they cite the few that i shanked, as me going for a winner).
the same people are also "matadors" to show me my ball was out (when they could have easily stopped it or hit it back... instead the cost of "winning the point" is needing to fetch the ball)
eventually i get to, "how about we just play a set"... every time the answer is "yeah" because that's what they wanted to do in the first place.

bottom line,... with better players, you never have to ask,... it's understood. so best to just avoid the practice-king, unless you're just gonna play sets (or groundstroke games, or whatever)
The way you ask isn't intended to illicit cooperation. "Hey what's the score over there" is certainly not going to be received well (nor would you expect to). It's "snark", pure and simple.

I'm being serious. If you want to have a good hitting session with someone that doesn't understand the "normal etiquette", best way is to stop the hitting session, talk to the guy, and come to an understanding. And to do it in a good natured way. For example, after the guy smashes a winner into the corner (or whatever), just let the ball go and let him know your expectations. There's a good chance he simply doesn't understand.

Sometimes when a lower player hits with a better player, they feel they have to prove themselves by hitting hard and into the corners. To show the better player that they are "good". In my experience, this is often the reason they do it. As the better player, explain to them what the expectations are of a rally.

And you don't need to let them know that you're the alpha dog either (by challenging them to a set). The whole idea of a warm-up or rally of this kind is the absence of competition and mutual cooperation. It's a two way street (if you really want it to work).
 

EddieBrock

Hall of Fame
What I find most interesting is our relationship with "standards" in general.

From what I can tell, those that expect others to adhere to "standards" are too rigid. Too full of themselves. Think there is only one right way to do things. Can't see things from others point of view. This view works out fine, until I get annoyed with the way somebody else does something. Then I want to have recourse to standards so I can tell them they are wrong.

So from what I can see, as long as everyone does things just the way I want them done, everything will be just fine. And they also need to bear in mind that the way I want things done can and will change (because I'm not rigidly bound to any standards).

Now, anyone who can't live up to my standards (which aren't standards, because standards are too rigid), I'm going to be annoyed with.

Sheesh, is this too unreasonable for you people? Or are you just too stupid to understand?

How did you get the idea that you have to do things exactly how I want or that people have extremely rigid or strict standards from my post? I think what I'm talking about is something called "common courtesy". If you're both standing on the baseline to warm up your groundstrokes you hit the person on the other side of the net groundstrokes so they can warm up. Hitting the ball as hard as you can could potentially injury you or your opponent. If you're warmed up already and he isn't do you think it's right to blow winners by him as he's just getting moving? If someone asks for overheads try to hit the ball up so he can hit overheads.
 

zaph

Professional
The way you ask isn't intended to illicit cooperation. "Hey what's the score over there" is certainly not going to be received well (nor would you expect to). It's "snark", pure and simple.

I'm being serious. If you want to have a good hitting session with someone that doesn't understand the "normal etiquette", best way is to stop the hitting session, talk to the guy, and come to an understanding. And to do it in a good natured way. For example, after the guy smashes a winner into the corner (or whatever), just let the ball go and let him know your expectations. There's a good chance he simply doesn't understand.

Sometimes when a lower player hits with a better player, they feel they have to prove themselves by hitting hard and into the corners. To show the better player that they are "good". In my experience, this is often the reason they do it. As the better player, explain to them what the expectations are of a rally.

And you don't need to let them know that you're the alpha dog either (by challenging them to a set). The whole idea of a warm-up or rally of this kind is the absence of competition and mutual cooperation. It's a two way street (if you really want it to work).

Allas, in my experience, talking doesn't get you anywhere. There are too many people who don't understand the difference between a warmup and match. A hitting session and a match.

To be blunt it shouldn't need explaining, look at how the pros warmup and practice. They don't smack feeds into the corners, unless that is the drill, so why would you?
 

r2473

G.O.A.T.
Allas, in my experience, talking doesn't get you anywhere. There are too many people who don't understand the difference between a warmup and match. A hitting session and a match.

To be blunt it shouldn't need explaining, look at how the pros warmup and practice. They don't smack feeds into the corners, unless that is the drill, so why would you?
OK. I'll stick with my strategy. It works for me pretty much every time. It was only a suggestion.
 
Here's a novel idea. You could simply speak to them. Explain to them what your expectations are. They might in turn speak to you. You could come to a mutual understanding on how to cooperate. You might even enjoy hitting with them.

Is that too old fashioned?

I operate on logic and commonsense, as in, this is the same courtesy I would want for myself, and expect of others. Basically it comes down to this, if the session is one of drills and practice, then I have a responsibility to my partner to keep as many balls in as possible, to ensure both of us are getting in the groove, and are able to work on the technique/shots we want. And I expect the same from my partner.

I do speak with them, if they keep up this nonsense, I'd go to them and say: "So you like going for these winners? Let's make them count towards something then, how about a match."

It's funny how much and often they'd miss these attempted winners in a match, where the points have real consequences.
 
Allas, in my experience, talking doesn't get you anywhere. There are too many people who don't understand the difference between a warmup and match. A hitting session and a match.

To be blunt it shouldn't need explaining, look at how the pros warmup and practice. They don't smack feeds into the corners, unless that is the drill, so why would you?

Exactly, the BEST practice is one where both players are going ~80%, keeping the ball in with good margins, and both players are able to work on their game. And you know what's even better? When both players have a mutual understanding of the practice session:

Player 1: "Hey, I'm going to go for some corners and lines, and I'm going to put more into my shots, is that ok?"
Player 2: "Oh yeah, let's do it, it'll be good practice for me too."

Player 1: "Hey, I want to run a bit."
Player 2: "So you don't mind me hitting the corners, or try to hit the corners?"
Player 1: "Not at all, I'm ready, thanks."

Player 1: "Hey man, want to step up our intensity?"
Player 2: "Yeah what do you have in mind?"
Player 1: "After 10 balls or so, it's on."
Player 2: "You got man, let's have a good practice."
 

user92626

G.O.A.T.
I have seen two grown men almost getting into a physical fight over this. Eventually the verbal "fight" got so bad that one of them called the police and the hotter temper guy got a ticket (for incessantly screaming at the cops). Basically, one man wanted direct to body rallying whereas the other guy kept trying drop shots. One called the other suck and stupid and the other said it was his freedom and insulted his level back.

All in all I thought any fight at the court is rather pathetic.

If recreational players don't understand that this is all recreational and virtually rule-less, they won't understand anything else. Ignore them and move on.
 

r2473

G.O.A.T.
I operate on logic and commonsense, as in, this is the same courtesy I would want for myself, and expect of others.
It's common for people to keep a notebook in their tennis bag with little reminders of maybe how to hit their serve or forehand. In my tennis notebook, the very first page is one large word. HUMILITY.

I got this from reading Pancho Segura's book. In it, he has a section devoted to the idea that you need to be humble and respectful of all opponents and partners NO MATTER WHAT. He explains how "you aren't good enough to have an attitude on the tennis court".

https://www.amazon.com/Pancho-Seguras-Championship-strategy-winning/dp/0070560404

Anyway, it's some of the best advice I've ever gotten (both for tennis and for life). I'm certainly not perfect in my practice of it. I never will be. But as long as I'm aiming in that direction, I think I'm on the right track.

And I firmly believe everyone can tell the difference if you approach them with humility or arrogance. And they return in kind what is offered them. In other words, if you treat them with respect they will almost always do the same. And I don't just mean hitting the ball down the middle of the court to them in warm-ups. I mean the entire picture.

Try it. It works. And you'll enjoy tennis (and life) much more.
 
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ChaelAZ

G.O.A.T.
If restrictions were put in place on strings/racquet some of today's players would drop off the tour.

There's a lot of not very talented players today benefiting from advances in technology levelling the playing field. Golf has a similar issue with technology allowing any ordinary ball striker to drive it 300+ yards. So the world number 100 can win any event.

This is largely why these days you see the world number 100 pulling off more "upsets" than 15 or 20 years ago in tennis.


One ball rally king, yo.
 
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