For example, grip change. Coach says the kid should go with Semi-Western but the parent wants to see eastern forehand grip. Parent is a Federer fan, can careless what's better for modern tennis. Parent wants to see a little Roger Federer clone.
What would you do if a coach and parent don't see eye to eye on something? I would love to hear from both coach and parent's perspectives.
Interesting scenario, my opinion:
The parent is the customer, the parent tells the coach what they want the coach to do, period.
The coach, upon being told what the parent' s requirements are can either accept or decline to coach the kid.
The coach is the contractor, and it is his prerogative about how he accomplishes the task put before him. If the parent doesn't like the way the coach does his job, he can ask about it, or find another coach.
Examples:
1: Parent comes to the coach, and asks the coach to teach his kid to play like Federer, Eastern FH, OHBH, full motion serve, attacking tennis. He just wants his son to enjoy the game and play high school tennis and make varsity, but otherwise is ok with however good the kid turns out. Coach can say yes or no.
2: Parent comes to coach, says he wants his son to be a national tournament player and get a DI scholarship. Coach can say yes or no, if parent suggests technical or tactical changes the coach can explain why they are not ideal, and if the parent refuses to budge, the coach can accept or decline to make the changes or continue coaching.
In my personal experience:
Almost all issues come from a lack of communication and a lack of clarity W/R/T goals. A parent is a valuable asset, and yes the best parents leave you alone and let you do your job helping in the way they can, the worst parents try to tell you how to do your job, and un-do your work behind the scenes.
The worst parents are the "well I could coach him but," parents.
J