hi all
I am writing in frustration today. I am a 3.5 player at our club. I know that I have better strokes than everyone else but end up loosing the match most of the time.
I realize that I loose most points because I rush into the point instead of waiting the ball to come to me.
I was wondering if there were any tips you guys can give me so that I will wait for the ball instead of rushing to it. I think about it but in the nick of the moment I try too hard.
Thanks
Man, I feel your frustration. I go through the same thing.....
But you have to realize, a loss is a loss. Your strokes may be the best "text Book" style, and you may hit like Federer during warm up, but if you can't knock him off and put the other player in their place, that means that all your "pretty" strokes does not amount to a pile of beans.
I still remember this one match I had in a city tournament 10+ years ago where my opponent was this elderly guy with ugly topspin moonballs. I ended up losing the match because he outlasted me. I started to make mistakes, and I had a melt down. After the loss, I gave myself all the excuses in the world of how that guy didn't know how to play tennis , blah blah blah....... but in the end, I realized that if I was the better player, I should have won the match.
I now play with a guy who has "less" orthodox strokes than me, and gives me "junk" balls all the time. It throws my rhythm and I have a difficult time, but still, a win is a win, and a loss is a loss.
If your opponent give you junk balls, then those junk ball should be an inferior shot in which, if I was the superior player, should take advantage of and put away for a win. Until I can consistently put these away with ease, despite how highly I may feel about the quality of my strokes, it is nevertheless "not good enough".
Man, it is depressing to lose to inferior players (but if they beat me, they are not inferior, but only in my mind...) but the only way to make it right is to practice more and consistently beat them, and put the universe back in order.
If you are a honest 3.5, then you will have many losses due to your own unforced errors. The major reason that you lose to "inferior" player is probably due to lack of consistency. Also, you may only have one style of play. As you gain more experience and increase to 4.0 and 4.5, your losses become more tactical and forced errors, rather than lack of consistency.
So, in conclusion, the best thing to work on is your CONSISTENCY.