monkeyisland90
Rookie
anyone here have hard time focusing when people you play start talking or engage in conversation? I don't mind this at all if i'm just playing around but playing competitve tennis requires so much mental toughness it
I wonder if the people i play really want to chat or there doing some gamesmanship.. (which i'm guilty of too but usually when it's something engaging or funny.. it actually increases performance.. i guess do to endorphins.. i don't know.. but some of the people i play are random people and have no idea who they are or there motives and usually just try to talk before and after match only... if someone tries to talk on and on.. i usually just drift away to the court and act interested.. and they get the picture next changeover pretty much.. but afterwards i chat .....or if they guy is mad or sad over a loss then i just try to keep it simple and stay away... Anyhow, read a tennis mag article awhile back and they recommended actually not to chat during a match at all and makes sense cause pros don't chat or even make eye contact during matches... I know we aren't pros but we like to mimick them don't we
Anyhow, just seems lot of people do chat and for you chatters out there that plays a player that doesn't during the whole match (except before and after).. do you think they are being arrogant self centered jerk.. or just playing tennis and you understand. I think higher rating it goes.. there's less chit chat (unless you play your buddy)
I wonder if the people i play really want to chat or there doing some gamesmanship.. (which i'm guilty of too but usually when it's something engaging or funny.. it actually increases performance.. i guess do to endorphins.. i don't know.. but some of the people i play are random people and have no idea who they are or there motives and usually just try to talk before and after match only... if someone tries to talk on and on.. i usually just drift away to the court and act interested.. and they get the picture next changeover pretty much.. but afterwards i chat .....or if they guy is mad or sad over a loss then i just try to keep it simple and stay away... Anyhow, read a tennis mag article awhile back and they recommended actually not to chat during a match at all and makes sense cause pros don't chat or even make eye contact during matches... I know we aren't pros but we like to mimick them don't we
Anyhow, just seems lot of people do chat and for you chatters out there that plays a player that doesn't during the whole match (except before and after).. do you think they are being arrogant self centered jerk.. or just playing tennis and you understand. I think higher rating it goes.. there's less chit chat (unless you play your buddy)