A year ago I felt like a bit of an impostor at 4.0 -- I had assumed I would stay 3.5 after not winning much in my limited USTA experience. I joined my first league team last spring with a group of friends playing 7.0 mixed. I was a little stunned when my partners and I won more than we lost, but we also got crushed a couple times.
One year later: I've fixed a couple weak areas and grown in confidence, and my main 3.0 partners have improved quite a bit as well. And we've been fairly dominant: 5-0 so far, and 60-19 in games. A couple of those were reasonably competitive, and they don't bother me. But we've crushed some teams, and I'm starting to feel like I don't belong.
Nothing inappropriate rating-wise, and I don't smash balls at people, so it's not that kind of thing. I'm not much of a power player. It's just that 60-year-old 3.5 women are totally flummoxed by my kick serve, poaching, and athleticism. I feel bad when it's such a mismatch. I find myself trying to figure out how to tone things down as the match goes on while still playing my brand of tennis, but that can get kind of awkward.
I love being on this team. This is my primary tennis friend group. But it's weird realizing I could be playing 8.0 or even 9.0 right now instead. If I don't get bumped up to 4.5 next year, I'm gonna really wrestle with whether I shouldn't play 7.0 again, especially if this season continues the way it has so far.
It doesn't seem like very many of the best 4.0 men are playing 7.0 mixed...is there kind of an understood thing that they don't belong? Or is it just that they're usually choosing better tennis at 8.0/9.0 instead?
One year later: I've fixed a couple weak areas and grown in confidence, and my main 3.0 partners have improved quite a bit as well. And we've been fairly dominant: 5-0 so far, and 60-19 in games. A couple of those were reasonably competitive, and they don't bother me. But we've crushed some teams, and I'm starting to feel like I don't belong.
Nothing inappropriate rating-wise, and I don't smash balls at people, so it's not that kind of thing. I'm not much of a power player. It's just that 60-year-old 3.5 women are totally flummoxed by my kick serve, poaching, and athleticism. I feel bad when it's such a mismatch. I find myself trying to figure out how to tone things down as the match goes on while still playing my brand of tennis, but that can get kind of awkward.
I love being on this team. This is my primary tennis friend group. But it's weird realizing I could be playing 8.0 or even 9.0 right now instead. If I don't get bumped up to 4.5 next year, I'm gonna really wrestle with whether I shouldn't play 7.0 again, especially if this season continues the way it has so far.
It doesn't seem like very many of the best 4.0 men are playing 7.0 mixed...is there kind of an understood thing that they don't belong? Or is it just that they're usually choosing better tennis at 8.0/9.0 instead?